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Ang Tunay Na Mayaman Ay Hindi Kailangan Magyabang

may kakilala ba kayong

May kakilala ba kayong ganito:

  • May bago lang gamit, show-off agad sa mga kaibigan at ka-opisina?
  • Brand new outfit, instant-posting ng pictures or status sa social media gamit ang #blessed agad?

Mahirap talagang sakyan ang mga taong ubod ng yabang.
Para silang “signal # 3”. Kung sino pa kasi ‘yung saktuhan lang ang kinikita, sila pa ang mahangin.

Samantalang ‘yung mga nakakaluwag sa buhay, kadalasan, sila pa ang tahimik at hindi mapagmalaki.

One of the best examples for this is Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple, Inc.
While his staff wears designer suits, siya, kuntento na sa sneakers, jeans, and casual shirt.
Imbis na bumili ng malaking bahay now that he???s earning $9.2 million a year, he’s just staying in a simple condo.

Sabi nga niya: “I like to be reminded of where I came from, and putting myself in modest surroundings helps me do that. Money is not a motivator for me.”

Ano ba ‘yung signs na nagiging mayabang na tayo?

AKO, AKO, AKO

Ito lang ang tanging maririnig natin sa mga taong mayayabang. Kahit hindi naman tinatanong, sila na mismo ang magpe-present sa sarili nila just to get the attention of others.

“Alam mo bang nakabili na AKO ng bahay?”
“Ganda ng bag KO, noh? Branded ‘yan.”
AKO pa lang ‘ata ang meron nito.”

Makasarili sila at walang ibang mas magaling kundi sila lamang.
Sila lang ang matalino, mayaman, at nakakaangat.
Tuloy, sa sobrang selfish, nakakabingi na at sila na mismo ang nilalayuan.

EVERYONE’S??A COMPETITOR

Ang taong mayabang, ang tingin niya sa lahat ay ka-kompetensya.
Feeling niya, aagawan siya ng posisyon, ranggo, sweldo, o opportunidad. Ang tendency? That person will do everything para hindi ito mabawi sa kanya.

Crab mentality is his greatest weapon. How?

  • Paninira ng imahe ng kapwa.
  • Pagsisinungaling.
  • Takes credit for other people???s work para bumango ang pangalan.

Ayaw kasi nilang may nangunguna o mas higit pa sa kanila.
Kaya imbis na makipagtulungan, sinosolo na lang niya ang lahat – huwag lang madaig ng iba.

MABABA ANG TINGIN SA IBA

“Assistant ka pa LANG? Eh, 3 yrs ka na diyan ah?”
“Iyan LANG, ‘di mo pa magawa?”
“Sus, kung ako ‘yan, nilampaso ko na ‘yan. Ang dali LANG niyan, eh.”

Favorite word: “LANG”. Nila-‘lang’ lang nila ang trabaho ng iba, without realizing na doon rin naman sila nanggaling.

Hindi man identical experiences, pero siguradong dumaan rin sila sa hirap bago nakamit ang tagumpay.

Kung gusto natin maging tunay na mayaman, matuto tayong lumingon sa pinanggalingan. Use it to help others, instead of bringing them down.

MAINGAY

Naniniwala ako na ang taong mayabang, parang lata na walang laman – maingay.

Para mapansin and to receive the praises that they want to hear, they will create noise.

Example:

  • Magpo-post sa social media ng picture ng bagong sasakyan.
  • Maglalagay ng mga “feeling blessed” status.

Kasunod nito ay, siyempre:

  • “Wow, ang swerte mo naman!”
  • “Yamaaaaan!”
  • …at mga likes na pagkarami-rami.

Naku, po! Gustong-gusto nila ito. Pakiramdam kasi nila, nasa taas sila at sikat sila.

Ang tunay na mayaman, hindi kailangan magpapansin.
Sila pa ang nahihiya dahil hangga’t maaari, ayaw nilang ipangalandakan ito.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

Anong mga bagay ang ipinagyayabang mo o ng kakilala mo?
Anong benefit nito sa’yo?
How can you be proud, but not arrogant at the same time?

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