First of all, I just like to greet everyone a belated Happy Valentines Day.
Sabi daw nila, na ang FEB daw ang buwan ng FEB-IBIG.
I would like to take this opportunity
to honor my wife for being the person
that God allowed me to meet and marry.
Mahal, ni hindi ko man maisip
na may iba akong kasama maliban sayo.
Napakapalad ko bilang lalaki na ako ang pinili mo
sa mga libo mong mga manliligaw.
Alam ko, kung bakit mo ako pinili mo
dahil masipag ako at masipag ako. Lol!
Seriously speaking, I want to honor you through this letter.
I just want to express to you from the bottom of my heart,
the reason I am the person that I am today is because of you.
Allow me to state the reasons why I am saying it:
YOU RESPECT ME
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Hindi mo ako hinihiya sa harap ng ibang tao.
Marunong kang tumiming, kapag solo na tayo,
tsaka mo ako binubulungan privately.
And you have the gift to say it in such a way na hindi ako na ma-ooffend.
“Alam mo naman mahal, love kita,
kaya meron lang ako sasabihin
baka hindi mo lang napapansin.
Ok lang ba sayo, or you want to talk later?”
You always respect how I think and feel.
As a matter of fact, I am always encouraged
after you point out my flaws and errors.
Alam na alam mo ang importante sa aming mga kalalakihan.
Mawala na ang lahat, wag lang ang respeto.
YOU TRUST ME
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Hindi ka nagdududa sa akin.
Alam ko na buo ang tiwala mo sa akin,
the more reason why I should protect and take care
of the trust you have given.
I know kasi that TRUST is a privilege and also a responsibility.
Once trust is broken, mahirap itong buuin.
Salamat sa patuloy na tiwala at asahan mo na ito ay iingatan ko.
Sisikapin ko na hindi kita masaktan.
At kung masaktan kita, na alam ko na madalas.
Titiyakin ko na ako ang unang hihingi ng tawad at paumanhin.
Hindi ko hahayaan na ito ay mag tagal ng 2 taon bago tayo mag-usap.
Tatanggalin ko ang pride sa akin sistema.
Dahil alam ko na napakahirap lunukin ang pride
lalo na kung ito ay bareta. Dapat powder!
Seriously, I will always love you,
honor you and protect you for the rest of my life.
Tulad ng kanta ni Jose Mari Chan,
“I will be careful with your heart.”
YOU BELIEVE IN ME
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Some people ask, “Chinkee, saan ka humuhugot ng confidence mo?”
First, from God.
Second, from my wife.
As long as my wife believes in me, I am ok.
My wife is my number one fan, cheerleader,
motivational speaker, encourager.
Totoo talaga ang kasabihan,
“Behind a successful man, is a good mother-in-law.
Ah este, a loving and supportive wife.”
Your spouse can either make or break you.
They can build you up or tear you down.
They can be your best friend or your enemy.
They can be your dream come true or your worst nightmare.
Mahal, you’ve been a blessing to me and I hope
that I am also a blessing to you.
I love you with all of heart, lungs, kidney, liver and soul.
Nagmamahal
Chinkee Tan
Always Chink Positive
“TO MY ONE AND ONLY HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIFE NOVE ANN,
THANK YOU FOR RESPECTING, TRUSTING AND BELIEVING IN ME.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
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- How thankful are you sa iyong spouse?
- Paano mo ito ipinapakita sa kanya?
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.