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What’s the Secret to Getting What You Want In Life?

Let Us Make Every Effort To Be Others-Oriented Not Self-Oriented

Ano ang pangarap mo sa buhay?
Ang magkaroon ng sariling bahay?
Ang makabili ng bagong kotse?
Ang magkaroon ng magandang trabaho?
Ang maging successful ang business?

Alam kong lahat tayo ay minimithi ang makamit ang bawat pangarap natin. So I want to share with you the secret to achieving your dreams. At yun ay sa pamamagitan ng pagtulong sa kapwa.

This principle is from Zig Ziglar. He said, “You can have everything you want in life, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”

Tulungan natin ang ibang tao na makamit ang ninanais nila, at makakamit din natin ang ating minimithi sa buhay.

And I believe in this because . . .

Bago tayo magkaroon ng pambili ng pinapangarap nating bahay o sasakyan, kailangan muna natin ng tao na MAGTITIWALA sa atin para tayo ay mabigyan ng pagkakakitaan.

The truth is, ang bawat isa sa atin ay nagiging INSTRUMENTO para tayong lahat ay magkaroon ng hanapbuhay.

Kahit na napakaganda ng business idea natin pero kung wala naman SUSUPORTA sa atin, balewala ito.

At kung tayo naman ay kumikita na, importante din that there is someone who will GUIDE or REMIND us para INGATAN ang bawat sentimo na ating natatanggap.

Madalas kasi nagiging SUBJECTIVE tayo kung mag-isip kaya dumadating sa point na padalos-dalos na lang tayo sa ating mga financial decisions. Kaya ang ending, we don’t get what we REALLY want in life.

Another reason why I believe in Zig Ziglar’s principle is because…

Any relationship na ang FOUNDATION ay friendship ay nagiging successful.

One of the important components of friendship is TRUST. Maipapakita natin ito by offering help to other people.

For example, kung gusto mong magkaroon ng successful business, then offer PRODUCTS or SERVICES that will help other people.

Gaya na lamang ng ginawa ng Google. Dahil sa owner nito, naging mas madali na ang mag RESEARCH.

Nandyan din yung mga emails. Dahil sa mga online platforms, mas napadali na ang COMMUNICATION with our loved ones na malayo sa atin.

Pati na rin ang mga online shops. Dahil sa kanila, pwede na natin maiwasan ang HEAVY TRAFFIC.

And I believe that IN RETURN, yung mga business owners who have offered help already got what they want in life.

We all need each other and friendship is important. And as long as we are WILLING to extend help, sigurado we will also be getting what we need and want in life.


Nakuha mo na ba yung gusto mo sa buhay?
Kung hindi pa, ano ang ginagawa mo para makamit ito?
Kung oo, nakamit mo ba ito dahil sa iyong pagtulong?

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