Nagkamali ka na ba sa iyong buhay?
Naniniwala naman ako na lahat naman tayo ay nagkakamali.
So the issue is not the mistake, but what we do with our mistake?
Yes, whether we admit it or not, we do something with our mistakes. Allow me to show you the three possible things we do with our mistakes.
1st CHOICE: COVER UP OR HIDE
Kahit “normal” lang ang magkamali, hindi pa din natin madaling matanggap ang sarili nating pagkakamali.
May ibang tao na hangga’t pwedeng maitago ang maling nagawa, ibabaon talaga sa lupa.
Ang thinking ay, “Hindi naman malalaman ng iba.” Kaya nung may nabangga sa parking habang paalis na, mas lalo pang nagmadali na makaalis para walang makaalam na siya ang nakabangga.
Dahil sa pagtatago, may mga pumipili ng . . .
2nd CHOICE: LIE
Sa kakapilit na maitago ang pagkakamali, kasunod talaga ang pagsisinungaling.
Pagdating sa bahay, nakita ni misis ang bangga sa inyong sasakyan. Tatanungin niya kung saan ito nabangga at ganito ang press release mo, “Naku, pagdating ko sa parking, yan na ang nadatnan ko.”
Dahil ayaw mahuli na nakagawa ng pagkakamali, nakakabuo na ng fictional story. Kapag ang pinili natin ay ang first option, hindi natin namamalayan na para lang maitago ang pagkakamali, kailangan nating tabunan ito ng mala-bundok na kasinungalingan.
Mahirap ang ganung option dahil magiging burden yun sa atin. Kaya para sa akin, the best option is the . . .
3rd CHOICE: ADMIT
Let’s use Steve Harvey’s experience as an example. He had a choice na huwag nang bumalik sa stage.
Pwedeng nagtago na lang siya sa backstage at sabihin sa management na hindi niya kayang humarap sa publiko para sabihin na nagkamali siya.
He had the option na magsinungaling at ipasa ang sisi sa ibang tao. Pwede siyang gumawa ng kwento to “save” himself sa kahihiyan na maaari niyang kaharapin.
Pero as we all know, he admitted his mistake, in front of approximately billions of viewers.
Sa isang tao nga mahirap nang aminin ang pagkakamali, sa harap pa kaya ng napakaraming tao?
But Steve Harvey became a very good example kung paano i-handle ang isang pagkakamali. He admitted his mistake and apologized for it. There will still be CONSEQUENCES pero ang importante ay hindi siya nahihirapan kung paano makapagtago at mamuhay na lang sa kasinungalingan.
The choice is ours to make. And every time we commit a mistake, we have to choose the best option to correct it. Will we choose what’s best for us today? Or will we choose what’s best for the rest of our lives?
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Kung recently ay may nagawa kang pagkakamali, ano ang gagawin mo about it?
Will your choice of action have a good effect in the long run?
Anong natutunan mo sa pagkakamaling nagawa mo?
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–Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.