Ever reminded a friend like this:
“Bes, okay lang bang kunin ko na bukas yung bayad mo?”
Pagkatapos ay sumagot siya ng:
“Hala grabe, kala mo naman tatakasan siya”
“Ang bilis naman, pag sa iba, hindi mo inaapura”
Sabay walk out of the door.
Mapapasabi ka na lang ng: ANYARE??
Nakakainis, ‘di ba?
Pwede naman kasing sabihin nila ng maayos
kung talagang wala pa.
Halimbawa:
“Hmm, okay lang ba kung sa susunod na buwan?”
“Sorry pwede ba pagkuha ko ng sweldo ko?.”
Mas mauunawaan pa siguro nang lubos
kung ganito ang pamamaraan.
Pero tandaan, ang tao ay iba-iba.
Hindi lahat ay madadaan sa mabuting usapan.
Others really learn the hard way!
Ano ang pwedeng gawin sa mga taong sila na ang nangutang,
sila pa ang may ganang magalit kapag singilan?
Or should I say, ang tamang response towards people like them.
RESPOND IN GENTLENESS AND OF PEACE.
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Nakakainis man at nakapanggigigil ang ginagawa nila,
ayaw naman siguro nating humantong sa matinding pag-aaway.
Baka mas lalo silang hindi magbayad! Haha!
Kidding aside, one of the proven and tested way to handle this
is by responding to them in a gentle and quiet spirit.
Sabi nga, “in our anger, do not sin.”
Control ourselves from the things
na pwedeng makasakit sa kapwa.
Take a little step backward muna,
rethink bago umaksyon ulit.
Kalma lang muna bago magsalita.
RESPOND IN KINDNESS, TRUTH AND OF LOVE. utang
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Kung darating na tayo sa puntong feeling natin
eh puputok na ang ating butchi sa inis at galit…
Uulitin ko:
Take a little step backward, rethink bago umaksyon ulit.
Maliban sa pagiging mahinahon, mas nakabubuti rin
kung i-confront nang may kabutihan, katotohanan
at may pagmamahal.
Sabi nga nila,
“True friends are those who can say
the worst things in front of you, corrects you, yet still loves you.”
PRAY NA LANG utang
Na sana maalala nila ang utang nila sa atin
At sana kung hindi man tayo mabayaran eh
nakatulong na lang tayo sa kanila.
Pray na hindi na ito maulit at
sana next time mas maging maingat na tayo.
“Yung mga taong sila na nga ang may utang pero sila pa ang galit. Sila yung mga taong nakakapanginig ng laman at nakakapanggigil.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Marami ka bang mga kaibigan na ganito kung singilan?
- Sa anong paraan mo sila kinakausap?
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.