T-A-M-P-U-H-A-N
Kung hindi maagapan ay magre-resulta sa hidwaan,
between friendship o any relationship man ‘yan.
Minsa’y dito rin nabubuo ang mga sumbatan.
Ang walang katapusang pagde-debate
kung sino ang may pinakamagandang
nagawa para mapatunayan kung
sino ba talaga ang may mabuting kalooban.
Kadalasan ay nagdudulot ito ng
emotional deep cuts
towards each other that
turns to HATE, or WORST, or DISGUST.
Paano?
- Kung may mga problemang hindi na-solve at walang closure.
- Unresolved miscommunication which turned into misunderstanding.
- Mga utang na hindi mabayaran.
Sabi nga nila, isa sa pinakamahirap
na i-associate between any relationship is MONEY.
Ano ang pwedeng mangyari?
CONFLICT OF INTEREST
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Kung hindi clear at firm ang intention ating puso,
magiging marupok tayo pag pera na ang usapan.
May tendency na pati ang work concerns
ay mahaluan ng personal matters kung
hindi marunong mag-lugar ng sarili.
Kaya madalas humugot.
“Hindi ko na siya papansinin, hindi naman kasi siya nagbabayad”
Ano ang pwedeng gawin?
DEAL WITH ETHICS
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In everything, deal with honesty, respect,
and if asked, with confidentiality.
We need to ‘walk our talk’.
Mahirap man sa umpisa pero
at least nakapag-umpisa.
Make sure that in every word we say, we will do it.
Kung hindi naman kaya, inform the person that we’re
dealing with transparency because we are also
accountable with our words.
DEAL PROFESSIONALLY
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We need to know how to locate and where to
position ourselves in every situation.
Perfect timing kumbaga.
With good manners and right conduct,
magagawa nating makipag-deal sa anumang
klase ng transaction lalo na kung singilan ng utang.
Dahil ang personal matters ay hindi related sa work concerns.
“Kapag tampuhan, tampuhan lang…Wala munang singilan ng utang.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Ano ang pinakamahirap na pinagdaanan mo so far when it comes to this?
- May specific person ka bang naalala dahil dito?
- Kailangan mo ba siyang kausapin to clarify things?
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.