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How can you relate Aldub Phenomenon to Marriage?

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Walang pwedeng magkaila na patok na patok nga ang AlDub.
Isa ka ba sa masugid na sumusubaybay sa AlDub????
Natutuwa ka ba o nakaka-relate ka ba sa kanila?
???Ano kaya ang mga bagay na pwedeng matututunan sa kanila na mai-relate naman sa marriage?

Maaring may mga ilan na hindi maunawan kung bakit ganon na lang kalakas ang impact ng AlDub sa mga Pilipino. Na para sa kanila ay tila kababawan lamang ang panonood sa kalyeserye ng Aldub.

Maaaring mababaw nga. Depende naman kasi yan sa pananaw ng isang tao. Pero hanggat may pwedeng matutunan ang audience, ang isang palabas ay (para sa akin) dapat na ipagpatuloy.

Mas kailangan natin kasi ang mga palabas na may positive lessons kahit ito pa ay “mababaw” na maituturing ng ilan. Kesa “malalim” nga ang tema ng palabas pero puro negative naman ang lessons na naibabahagi nito.

So ano ano nga ba ang mga positive lessons ng AlDub na pwede naman nating i-relate sa marriage?

SENSIBILITY
Being aware of the feelings of others is very important in marriage. Hindi uso ang selfishness pag ikaw ay may asawa o pamilya na. Hindi na kasi pwedeng kung ano lang ang gusto mong mangyari ang masusunod. You need to consider others as well, especially your spouse.

Makikita natin na si Alden ay sensible. He considers not only what he wants???to meet Yaya Dub???but also what Lola Nidora wants. Hindi pinapaairal ni Alden ang kanyang selfishness when it comes sa “panliligaw” niya kay Yaya. Instead ay kino-consider din niya ang feelings ng mga taong mahalaga sa kanila. Ganon din naman si Yaya Dub. Kahit gaano niya kagusto na mag-stay sa first date nila ni Alden ay inisip pa din niya si Lola Nidora.

SPONTANEITY
Routine is great, but being spontaneous once in a while is even greater. Ang pagiging spontaneous will spice up your marriage kasi maaalis nito ang dullness na pwedeng ma-develop sa pagsasama ninyong mag-asawa habang tumatagal.

AlDub’s kalyeserye may have scripts, pero makikita din natin that more often than not, spontaneous ang mga ginagawa ni Alden at ni Yaya Dub. Maaaring nakalagay sa script na magkikita sila pero once na magkita ang dalawa, you can see na hindi scripted ang facial expressions nila.

SINCERITY
Your spouse will always know if you are sincere when you buy her a gift, or when you say sorry for not cooking his favorite food. Ang pagiging sincere will make all the difference in your marriage. Every thing that you will do for your spouse should come from a sincere heart.

Try this:When your marriage is not doing well, do things for your spouse sincerely for 90 days. Kahit wala siyang positive na feedback na ibigay, ituloy mo lang. Mas maganda na hindi niya alam yung mga gagawin mo for her or him because spontaneity may be the best form of sincerity. (Try mo din yung suggestion ko even if your marriage is not falling apart.)

Alden and Yaya Dub’s sincerity may be evident. Pero mas evident ang sincerity ng mga audience na walang kamalay malay na nasa kanila na pala nakatutok ang camera. Makikita mo kung gaano ka-genuine ang feelings nila. Andyan yung magtatatalon sila sa tuwa pag kinikilig sila, or yung maiiyak sila pag nalulungkot sila, or yung pag nganga nila pag nagugulat sila sa nangyari sa isang character sa kalyeserye.

AlDub???s kalyeserye may be “mababaw”, but take a closer look and you will see that they can teach positive lessons that we can relate and apply in marriage.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

???In your marriage, are you . . .???Sensible???? Spontaneous? ???Sincere?

Ano ang pwede natin mai-apply sa ating buhay mag-asawa para manumbalik ang kilig-factor sa inyong pagmamahalan?
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