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May kakilalang ba kayong mga taong PLASTIC? So sobrang ka-PLASTIKAN, talo pa ang Tupperware sa ka-PLASTIKAN

Paano mo malalaman ang isang tao ay PLASTIC?
Ang isang taong PLASTIK ay:

  • Mabait sa umpisa pero lumalabas din ang tunay na kulay sa huli.
  • Sumisipsip sa harap mo, pero sinasaksak ka kapag nakatalikod.
  • Walang masabi masama kung nadiyan ka, pero marami kang naririnig na paninira kapag wala ka na.
  • At kapag kinon-front mo, ang bait-bait at sinasabi na mas-interpret mo lang siya.

Mahirap kung madalas mong kasama ang mga taong PLASTIC. Nakakatakot magkwento sa mga taong ganoon at nakakatakot silang kasama. Kapag kinewento mo ang sikreto mo, para ka nag broad cast sa FB or Twitter na nag-woworld wide trending ng ang istorya mo. Napag-uusapan ka na ng iba, hindi mo pa alam. Sila pa mismo ang magsasabi na concern sila sa iyo, dahil may kumakalat na istorya at palalabasin pa na sila ang kakampi mo.

Ito lang ang masasabi ko sa mga PLASTIC MAN OR WOMAN?

“PLASTIC MELTS ONE DAY.” Matutunaw din ang mga yan. Kati ano pa ang pagpapanggap na gagawin nila, darating ang araw na mabubuking din ang mga yan. Lalabas din ang tunay na pagkatao. Kaya it is better to be careful who you are telling your secrets to. Alamin mo na kung pwedeng pagkatiwalaan ang mga taong sinasabihan mo nang iyong sikreto. Maging maingat, matalino, mapanuri at mapagmatyag kung sino ang mga taong sasamahan at sasabihan mo.

PAANO MO MADEDETECT ANG MGA PLASTIC MAN OR WOMAN?

SELFISH

They only think about their personal interest. Kaya nga may kasabihan that there are no PERMANENT FRIENDS only PERMANENT INTEREST. Kung nagkagipitan ilalaglag ka nga mga tang ito.

COWARD

Duwag ang mga taong PLASTIC. HIndi nila kayang sabihin sa harap mo at parati na lang dinadaan sa ibang tao. At kung kakausapin mo, panay naman ang iwas at sasabihin na busy sila. Wala silang time or talk to my lawyer. Ika nga, ang daming dahilan. In other words, ayaw nila ng CONFRONTATION. Dahil mabubuking sila.

GOSSIP

Kung may kasama ka sa trabaho o may kakilala ka sa church sa ang hilig magkwento ng buhay at pangyayari ng ibang tao. At ang dating ay ganito, “Brother, sister, medyo concern lang ako sa ating kasama dahil nakita ko siyang may kasamang iba sa mall pero hindi niya asawa. Concern lang ako, alam kaya ng asawa niya yon?” Huwag kang masyadong maglalapit at magkwento sa mga taong ganoon. Iiwasan ko sila. Bakit naman? Ano ang assurance ko na hindi nila ako pagkwekwentuhan kung ako naman ang nakatalikod.

Kung may issue siya at talagang concern siya, MAGPAKATOTOO siya at lapitan niya yung taong involved at kausapin niya. Kung hindi niya kayang kausapin ng harap-harapan wala siya karapatan na ikwento sa ibang tao. In other words, if you are not part of the solution, you are also part of the problem.

BITTER

Ayaw nila nagtatagumpay ang ibang tao. Kung marami silang comment na hindi magaganda tuwing may mas magaling sa kanila. Hindi mo silang tunay na kaibigan. Ang mga tunay na kaibigan ipagdiwang ang tagumpay ng iba.

Mag-ingat ka sa mga taong PLASTIC. Mabait lang sa iyo kapag may kailangan at pag nakaharap ka. Huwag kang magkakamali na awayin at tumalikod. Oras na ginawa mo yan, ikaw na ang susunod na target nila.

So next time kung meron kayong mga makakasama na mga taong ganoon. Mag-isipisip ka na kung gusto mo pa silang makasama. Kung hindi ka mag-ingat, ikaw na ang susunod na kanilang magiging biktima.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

May mga nakasama na ba kayo o naging biktima na ba kayong ng mga taong PLASTIC?

Ano sa palagay mo ang pwede mong gawin para maiwasan at maprotektahan ang iyong sarili sa mga taong ganoon?

Better-to-tell-the-truth-than-to-keep-a-life-from-a-friend

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