Napipilitan ka ba gumawa ng isang bagay na labag sa iyong kalooban?
Napilitan ka magbayad o manlibre dahil ikaw ay nakantiyawan.
Napilitan ka mag sinungaling para sa mga kaibigan mo.
Napilitan ka magbenta ng isang bagay na hindi mo naman feel.
Napiltan ka sumali sa isang negosyo na hindi mo alam.
Most of us believe na mahirap makawala sa peer pressure o impluwensiya ng mga tao sa paligid mo – sa school or trabaho man.
Yung tipong, kahit hindi mo feel ang trip nilang gawin or bilhin, napipilitan kang sumabay at sumunod sa kanila.
In case nakakalimutan mo, you always have a choice.
YOU CAN ALWAYS SAY NO.
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Say NO but be polite.
Mutual respect ang tawag diyan.
Understand and respect what they want to do with their money at kapalit niyan, igalang din nila on how you would like to spend your funds.
GO WITH PEOPLE WHO SHARE THE SAME VALUES AS YOU.
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Huwag hayaang makulong ang sarili sa grupong pipilitin tayong gawin ang hindi naman natin gusto. Natatakot ka ba dahil baka itakwil ka?
Makakahanap at makakahanap ka ng like-minded individuals who can make you feel right at home. If you already know who they are, nurture good relations with them.
“Don’t be forced to something you will regret. Remember, you have a CHOICE!”
-Chinkee Tan, Top Motivational Speaker Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Kanino ka nape-pressure?
- Anong ginagawa mo para labanan ito?
- What are your beliefs on this?
Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.