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An Open Letter To All Single Dads and Moms

Sa lahat ng mga single dads and moms, bilib na bilib ako sa inyo!
You have to be the nanay and tatay.

Dual work but single pay.

Patong patong ang inyong mga responsibilities.
You have to play the role of…
A father and a mother.
A provider and a nurturer.
A disciplinarian and a comforter.

Grabe, ibang klase talaga kayo. Di ko kakayanin yung ginagawa ninyo.
Dakila kayong mga magulang. Saludo ako sa inyo!

So I want to dedicate this post to all of you dads and moms who are raising your family single-handedly.

Gusto kong i-highlight yung OUTSTANDING QUALITIES ninyong mga single parents.

First of all, you are …

STRONG
Ang pagiging magulang ay talagang mahirap na responsibilidad. And I’m sure DOBLE HIRAP para sa inyong mga single parents.

Sobrang TATAG ninyo para gampanan ng mag-isa ang tungkulin ng dalawang magulang.

At kitang kita naman na talagang MATIBAY kayo para mapagtagumpayan ang very challenging na role ninyo.

I can also say that you are …

BRAVE
Sa sobrang bigat ng hamon para sa mga single parents, NAKAKATAKOT ito harapin.

Kaya talagang humahanga ako sa inyo because you have the COURAGE to take responsibility ng mag-isa.

NAPAKALAKAS NG LOOB ninyo na gampanan ang parehas na tungkulin ng isang ama at ina.

And I’m sure kaya nagagawa ninyo yan ay dahil kayo ay …

SELFLESS
INUUNA ninyong isipin ang kapakanan ng inyong mga mahal na anak.

Madalas kayong nawawalan ng oras para sa sarili dahil ang PRIORITY ninyo ay ang matugunan ang pangangailangan ng mga bata.

You GENEROUSLY offer yourself both as a father and a mother.

And you accomplish that by being …

RESOURCEFUL
Kung ano-ano ang naiisip ninyo na mga PARAAN para ma-meet ang needs ng inyong mga anak.

Nagiging CREATIVE ka para kahit mag-isa ka lang, hindi maramdaman ng iyong anak na may kulang.

You are also CAPABLE in managing your time well para hindi lang financial needs ang naibibigay mo, nakakapag spend ka din ng quality time with your kids. Assignment dito, office doon. Laro dito, kayod doon.

At higit sa lahat, you are …

HARDWORKING
Hindi sa inyo uso ang salitang “MAMAYA NA”. Wala kayong tigil kakatrabaho sa opisina hanggang sa bahay.

Halos MAGKANDA-KUBA na kayo sa mga gawain, go na go pa din!

I’m sure napapagod kayo dahil tao lang kayo pero nakakabilib lang talaga kayo dahil parang WALA KAYONG KAPAGURAN.

Alam ko na lahat tayong mga magulang ay may mga qualities na nasabi ko, pero para sa mga single dads and moms, sigurado DOBLE ang pagpapakita ninyo ng mga qualities na yun.

Muli, gusto kong iparating sa inyo, mga single parents, na lubos ko kayong hinahangaan. Saludo ako sa inyo!

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

Bilang single parent, ano ang mga challenges na iyong kinakaharap?
Paano mo ito napagtatagumpayan?
Anong advise mo para sa mga bagong single parent pa lang?

Ang PagIbig ng Magulang ay Hindi Kayang Pantayan

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