Single Blog

Okay Lang Ako””

mas maganda na yung nagpapakatotoo kaysa nagpapanggap

Yan ba ang kadalasan na sagot mo sa tuwing tinatanong ka?
Na kahit may hinanakit ka ay, “Okay lang ako” pa din ang sagot mo?

May mga tao talaga na kahit anong itanong mo ay “Okay lang ako” or “I’m fine” ang sagot nila kahit meron sila dinadamdam. Bakit may mga taong ganun sumagot? To avoid arguments para maiwasan ang stress. Kasi kung paguusapan pa, eh mauuwi lang naman sa pagsisigawan or pagsusumbatan or pagtatalo. But remaining silent will not solve anything. Avoiding it will not solve it but will only make it worse.

I want to highlight the importance of being honest with others and yourself at all times. And saying, “Okay lang ako,” kahit hindi naman talaga ay one form of disrespecting others and yourself, because you are lying.

So may I suggest the following…

BE HONEST

Tell your friends and loved ones that you are not okay. And if you’re not ready to elaborate, tell them to give you time. Timing lang! Sometimes, you just need to cool off. Pero at least alam ng mga taong nakapaligid sa iyo yung tunay mong nararamdaman.

There’s no other way but to be honest! Kaya kahit mahirap, at alam kong mahirap, magpakatotoo.

At kung nagawa mong maging honest, you have to . .

DECIDE

Decide what? Kung ano ang next step mo. Di naman kasi pwedeng naging honest tapos you keep everyone in the dark. Dapat ay ipaalam mo sa kanila kung ano ang desisyon mo, kung ano ang susunod mong gagawin.

Being honest paves the way for possibilities sa desisyon na pwede mong gawin. So don’t stop by just saying, “Okay lang ako” even if you’re not.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

Okay ka lang ba talaga? Kasi kung hindi, maging honest ka sa sarili mo, nang sa gayon ay mapagdesisyunan mo kung tama at paano mareresolba ang iyong problema.

Comments (0)

Smart Money Habits vs. Poor Money Habits

Hi there, Mr. Chink Positive here.

I have recently released a book entitled Raising Up Moneywise Kids. If you haven’t checked it out yet, you can do so here.

Now, feel free to download my free guide on how to know smart money habits from poor money habits, which I believe can help you not just in raising moneywise kids, but also in your own financial disciplines and personal financial life. After all, your financial habits determine your financial life.
I want to read it!
FEATURED DOWNLOAD -

HOW I MADE MY 1ST MILLION

What if there was a book that gave you the opportunity to earn a million pesos? Will you grab the chance or will you let it pass you by?
The choice is in your hands.

Highly regarded businessman-turned-wealth-coach, Chinkee Tan, has more than a decade’s worth of business experience under his belt. Chinkee Tan has helped fifty Filipinos earn their first million and YOU can be the next one.
DOWNLOAD NOW
FEATURED DOWNLOAD -

For richer & For Poorer

No one wants to stay poor and penniless. There are lots of books out there that talk about just that – getting rich and getting rich fast. Books authored by successful businessmen and motivational speakers that try to convince us that their advice is the best way to get rich. Becoming a millionaire has become one of the main goals of most people.

I’ve found that, while ther is no fool-proof way to get rich, there are some principles that we can learn that will definitely increase our chances of getting rich. My goals in writing this book are to Inform, Educate, and Motivate. Finally, it is also my goal to Disturb you.
DOWNLOAD NOW
FEATURED DOWNLOAD -

TILL DEBT DO US PART

RENEW and Change your mindset to chink positive 
REFOCUS your PERSPECTIVE to look at the positive not on the negative. 
OVERCOME trials, hardships, failures, challenges or even depression. 
Change your old habit into a NEW HABIT for a NEW YOU 
Create your VISION, your STRATEGY and your ACTION PLAN to turn your dreams into a reality. 
To be INSPIRE and be EMPOWERED so that you also inspire and empower others.
DOWNLOAD NOW
FEATURED DOWNLOAD -

SECRETS OF THE RICH AND SUCCESSFUL

Let’s face it, everyone wants to become rich. Some have even dedicated their lives to pursue riches, making it part of their lifelong dream.

But here’s one important thing we need to understand: money is just a means to something, but it is never the end. In other words, money is merely a tool to buy something.
DOWNLOAD NOW