Bakit gano’n?
Sa tuwing may mas naka-aangat sa atin,
madalas puro reklamo at mga salitang nakasisira sa ating kapwa
ang naririnig mula sa kapitbahay, sa mga kaibigan
o minsan galing mismo sa sariling pamilya.
“Sus! Binayaran niya lang ang judges kaya nakalaya!”
“Sipsip kasi sa boss kaya na-promote agad…”
Kung tayo pa nga lang na nagbabasa
ay ramdam na ang sakit sa bawat salita,
paano na lang ang mismong sinasabihan ng mga ito?
Imbis na tayo ang mag-encourage sa ating kapwa for the better,
baka tayo pa ang maging sanhi ng kanilang pagkamuhi sa tao.
And maybe later on, maging sanhi
para sila’y madepress at mag-attempt na mag-suicide.
Ang mga salitang ito na kung titignan natin
ay hindi naman natin alam ang tunay na pangyayari.
Para ito’y maiwasan hangga’t pwede pa,
baka kaya nating…
MAG-ISIP MUNA BAGO MAGSALITA manira
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…nang isa, dalawa, tatlo o higit pang beses.
Tanungin natin ang sarili gaya nito:
Will my words break or make the person?
Gaano ba katotoo ang mga pinagsasabi ko?
Bakit ko gagawan ng kwento ang kapwa ko?
May ginawa ba siyang mali para gawin ko itong ganti?
Ano ba talaga ang intensyon ng puso ko?
Pag-isipan din natin ang mga ito ng ilang beses.
ISAALANG-ALANG ANG DAMDAMIN NG ATING KAPWA manira
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Still…we are humans. May puso’t damdamin.
May mga taong matigas at intimidating
kung tignan physically,
but deep inside there’s a battle they’re trying to win.
Let’s make it a point that
we consider what others would feel as well.
REJOICE IN CELEBRATIONS, SYMPATHIZE IN SORROWS manira
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“Congratulations” and “Job well done”
are typical words to commend someone and
these are the same words that can lift one’s soul.
Tandaan: Words are powerful.
“Pwede namang umunlad tayo na hindi kailangang manira ng ibang tao.”
-Chinkee Tan. Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Why don’t we greet and thank someone today?
- Who among our family or colleagues can we encourage?
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.