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How To Overcome Defeat In Life

It doesnt matter if you lose

Hindi porket talo ka, talunan ka na.
Hindi porket talo ka, hindi ka na magaling.
Hindi porket talo ka, wala ka ng pag-asa.
Hindi porket talo ka, wala ka ng silbi.
Hindi porket talo ka, hindi ka na magtatagumpay.

Ang pagkatalo ay hindi katapusan ng buhay. It doesn???t matter if you lose, what matters most is how you handle your defeat.

Yung ibang natatalo, sumusuko, nawawalan ng gana at minsan pa ay nagpapakamatay. Samantala, ang iba naman ay lalong ginagalingan, lalong nagpupursige, lalong ginaganahan at lalong tumitibay ang loob.

How we respond to defeat determines if we will succeed or not?

Sino ba naman ang di nakakakilala sa ating pambansang kamao?
Sa buong journey ng kanyang pagbo-boxing, ang pinakamapait na pagkatalo ay yung sa kamay ni Juan Manuel Marquez, noong natsambahan siyang mapatulog isang segundo bago matapos yung round. Kung nawalan siya ng loob at sumuko noong mga panahon na yon, siguradong wala tayong ???PACMAN??? ngayon. Siguradong hindi siya magiging People???s Champ.
Pero ano ang ginawa niya? Nakabalik at lumaban muli!

Ikaw ba kamusta? Have you ever been defeated in life?

If you want to overcome defeat, read on.


Kapag natalo ka, learn from it. Para sa susunod na labanan, panalo ka na.
You will become wiser kung pag-aaralan at matuto ka sa mga pagkakamali at pagkatalo mo. Kasi kapag hindi ka natuto at nagtanda, uulit lang ng uulit ang pagkatalo mo. Dapat pagaling ka ng pagaling because of the things you learn from your defeats. Use your defeat as your stepping stone towards success, not as a stumbling block.


Kapag natalo ka dapat mas lalo kang tumatapang. May kasabihan nga, ???What doesn???t kill you makes you stronger.???
Patunayan mo na may ibubuga ka at may igagaling ka pa!

Huwag kang magpapatalo sa mga discouragements, panlalait, panunumbat at kung ano-ano pang negative comments ng iba.

Get up, pick up your sword and fight again.

Kung natalo ka sa round 1, may round 2 pa, kung talo ka pa rin may round 3 pa. Hangga???t humihinga ka, laging may next round. Isipin mo na laging may pagkakataon para bumawi at lumaban.


To cling means to hold on tightly. Kanino naman tayo kakapit ng matindi? Sa DIYOS. Bakit? Kasi tanging Siya lamang ang may kakayahang magbigay sa atin ng katalinuhan at kalakasan para tayo ay magtagumpay. Actually, He???s is the ultimate source of everything. Lahat ng kailangan natin???comfort, peace, joy, strength, patience, love, wisdom, endurance, persistence,…you name it, kaya Niyang ibigay lahat. Kahit ang success na inaasam-asam natin kaya Niyang ibigay. Yan ay kung kakapit tayo sa Kanya at ipagkakatiwala ang ating mga buhay sa makapagyarihan Niyang mga kamay. Makakaasa din tayo na kahit makabitaw tayo sa Kanya, kailanman hindi Niya tayo bibitawan.


Anong laban ang pinagdadaanan mo ngayon?
How do you respond to your defeat?
Kanino ka nakakapit?

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