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How To Deal With An Unreliable Sibling/Housemate

ONLY GOD CAN CHANGE A PERSON'S HEART

Meron ka bang kapatid o kahit sinong miyembro ng pamilya na hindi maasahan sa bahay? Sinasalo mo na lahat ng gawain pero siya ay deadma pa riin? Pagod na pagod ka na eh hindi man lang matutong mahiya.

Tulog-Kain- Nood-Tulog- Kain- Nood (Repeat)

Minsan nakakasama ng loob yung mga taong ganito. Kasi lahat naman tayo ay may iba???t ibang priorities at pinagkakaabalahan, tayo pa minsan ang inaasahan nila na gumawa ng gawaing bahay.

Ano bang pwedeng gawin kapag may mga tao tayong kasama na ganito?

CONTROL YOUR TEMPER

There are times na nagagalit tayo sa kanila, nagpaparinig, o nagdadabog dahil nagbabakasakali tayo na sa paraang ito eh baka makonsensya sila at magbago. Unfortunately, it doesn???t work that way.

We can only control ourselves, but not others. Hindi natin hawak ang sitwasyon, ang kilos at kanilang pag iisip.

Wala talaga mangyayari, maiinis lang tayo lalo.

Control what you can and let God do what He can.
Accepting this fact will allow us to feel a little better, not bitter.

TALK TO THE PERSON

Alam man niya na pabigat siya dahil sa kanyang ugali, it???s best na magkausap kayo para masabi mo ang iyong nararamdaman. Hindi kasi natin sigurado kung ano ang dahilan kung bakit siya ganon. Maaring may problema siya, may iniisip, o kung ano man.
Bago tayo sumuko ng tuluyan, bigyan pa natin ng huling pagkakataon na ilagay natin ang ating sarili sa kanilang lugar.

Be calm and don???t immediately judge as you talk kasi baka mas lalo siyang hindi magsabi sayo.

Whatever the reaction is, at least napakinggan mo ang kanyang hinaing at nasabi mo na sa kanya ang gusto mong sabihin that might change his or her behavior.

PRAY THAT GOD WILL CHANGE THE PERSON

Sabi ko nga kanina, you can???t change people, only God can do that.
God can change a heart of stone into a heart of flesh.

Just do what you have to do???continue to be reliable, dependable, and a good role model, because this will serve as an inspiration to them and allow God to work in their hearts.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

Sino yung kasama mo sa bahay na hindi maasahan?

How do you deal with this?

Paano mo ito haharapin na hindi nawawala ang iyong respect at values towards them?

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