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How To Accept Defeat

ANG MGA TAONG NATATALO SA BUHAY AY YUNG MGA TAONG UMAAYAW

Ikaw ba ay natalo na sa kahit ano man patimpalak o negosyo?
Kung ikaw ay nabigo at natalo, hindi pa ito ang katapusan ng mundo.
Pero sa araw na iyong pagkatalo o pagkabigo, mahirap itong tanggapin, at para kang nasa alapaap na hindi mo mararamdaman na sumasayad ang iyong mga paa sa lupa. Hindi ka makapaniwala na ito ay nangyayari sayo. You are going through the first reaction of defeat, which is DENIAL.

Pero kahit ano man ang mangyari, habang tayo ay nabubuhay hindi tayo dapat mawalan ng pag-asa. May mga ibang tao na nabigo lang ay umaayaw at bumibigay na. Wala pa akong nakitang taong nagtagumpay na hindi nabigo noong umpisa.

Kung gusto mo talagang tunay na magtagumpay, kailangan mong matutong lumaban at tumayo mula sa iyong pagkatalo.

Isang magandang halimbawa ay si Thomas Edison. Ilang beses ba niya sinubukan ang mga formula niya bago naimbento ang light bulb? Ito ay nangyari lamang pagkatapos ng libu-libong mga pagtatangka, pero ni minsan ay hindi siya umayaw? Ito ay pagpapatunay na walang tatalo sa mga taong hindi marunong umayaw.

Ganoon din naman si Donald Trump, taon ang binilang para mabuo niya ang kanyang business empire, ngunit siya ay na-bankrupt ng hindi lang isang beses. Ngayon si Donald Trump ay isang bilyonaryo at nagkakahalaga ng higit sa $2 billion dollars.

So ano ang maaari nating natutunan mula sa dalawang nating halimbawa.

LEARN HOW TO ACCEPT DEFEAT

Ang pinaka mahirap talaga ay yung tanggapin ang katotohanan na ikaw ay natalo at nabigo. Pero kailangan mo itong gawin kung nain mong mag move forward from your defeat. Hindi lahat ng tao ay panalo, at hindi rin sa lahat ng oras na ikaw ay talo. Each of us have our own timing and season.

LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES

Even when we believe we have done our best at something, at hindi tayo nanalo, then it may mean na meron pa rin mga bagay na dapat i-improve or baguhin. So, tanungin ang iyong sarili kung saan nagkamali para di na ito maulit. Gaya ng example ko kay Thomas Edison, he made many mistakes, but he used those mistakes to improve his work.

LEARN NOT TO BLAME OTHERS, ESPECIALLY YOURSELF

Hindi ka makapag move on kasi sinisisi mo na lang ang lahat at pati na ang iyong sarili. Mistakes happen simply because no one is perfect. So don???t play the blame game. Be strong enough to take responsibility and move on.

LEARN THAT YOU ARE NOT IN CONTROL

At the end of the day, many are our plans but in the end it is God???s plan that will prevail. Why? Because God is the sovereign one. He is control, we are not. We just need to trust in God???s sovereign and perfect will.

Manalig! Maniwala! Bumangon! Lumaban muli!

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

Ikaw, dumaan ka ba sa pagkatalo lately?
Ano ang naging reaksyon mo?
Bumigay ka ba o lumalaban ka pa?

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