May mga taong kahit anong ayos ng pagtanong mo, ang laging sagot sa iyo ay “SECRET!”
Di ba nakakainis kausap ang mga taong ganito. Okay lang kung harmless ang secret. Pero paano na kung ito ay seryoso at mahalaga?
How would you feel if you found out your loved one kept secrets from you?
Masakit, di ba?
Nobody wants to be left in the dark. Dapat maging honest din tayo sa iba.
We just need to be reminded that…
The foundation of relationship is TRUST.
When there is no TRUST, there is no RELATIONSHIP.
Hindi tayo makiki partner sa isang tao na hindi natin pinagkakatiwalaan.
Pero bakit tayo may mga lihim sa ating mahal sa buhay?
Minsan iniisip natin na sila ay MASASAKTAN.
Well, hindi nga sila masasaktan dahil hindi nila alam.
Ganoon din, meron din tayong inililihim, dahil alam natin kapag ito ay na diskubre. MAG-AAWAY lang kayo. Kaya’t mas maganda na huwag na sabihin.
Ano sa palagay mo ang mangyayari kung malaman rin nila sa huli?
Masasaktan at mag-aaway din kayo. Pareho din naman ang ending.
Why don’t we change our way of thinking and take a different approach.
TALK AND AGREE BEFORE YOU DECIDE
Mas maganda na pinag-uusapan ang lahat.
Weigh the pros and cons.
Get the idea, feelings and wisdom of others, especially your loved ones.
Then agree before you finally make the decision.
In the end, there will be no fault-finding.
Probably, you’ve tried the old way, why don’t you try this new way?
Walang masama, mag-try di ba?
“AGREE CORPORATELY. No good decision was ever made alone.”
-Chinkee Tan, Top Motivational Speaker Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Are you ready to live with the truth?
- Are you ready to start anew?
- Talk and agree before you decide.
Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.