Lahat naman ay nangarap na magkaroon ng dream wedding, right? If people have a DREAM WEDDING, then why not have a DREAM MARRIAGE too? Kung ikaw ay may asawa na, ang tanong ay, “Ito na nga ba ang DREAM MARRIAGE mo?” O gusto mo nang gumising sa katotohanan at wish mo lang na ito ay isang MASAMANG PANAGINIP?
Can I ask you a personal question?
Kung hindi mo alam kung saan ka mag-uumpisa dahil sa dami, huwag mag-alala! You are in the right time and at the right place. Hindi aksidente na nababasa mo ngayon ito. In fact, I believe that you have been searching for answers, and this can be the answer you're looking for.
Perhaps it would be easier if the question was not limited to just three things, right? Mas madaling sagutin kung hindi lang tatlong bagay. And then you would probably answer that you would want to change everything. If you have that feeling, you’re not alone!
It took us almost 12 years to finish secondary schooling.
But once na nakapagpili ka na ng asawa, at ikaw ay nagkamali, hindi mo na pwedeng palitan. NO RETURN NO EXCHANGE!
In the end, many made a lot of mistakes and caused a lot of pain to each other in the process. Baka sa ngayon, sinisisi mo na rin ang sarili mo sa dami ng problems sa married life mo. Hinay-hinay lang, hindi lahat ay kasalanan mo kung bakit naging ganito na ang married life ninyong mag-asawa.
Uulitin ko na walang eskwelahan ang nagturo sa atin kung paano mag-umpisa ng pamilya. Marahil, wala ring nagturo sa atin intentionally kung paano ang tamang pamamaraan para mag-umpisa.
Kaya kung hindi maganda ang inyong samahan, my request is “Do not be too hard on yourself. There is still hope."
Kung mabibigyan ka ng chance na magkaroon ng RESET BUTTON sa inyong MARRIAGE LIFE, willing ka ba mag-restart?
What am I talking about? Meron ba talagang RESET BUTTON sa marriage? Marahil you did your best, but your best wasn't good enough..sounds familiar?
Mga Ka Chink, willing ka ba mag umpisa muli? Gusto mo ba itama ang iyong mga pagkakamali? Ninanais mo ba na makita ang iyong marriage ay mabuting halimbawa sa iyong mga anak?
Kung willing ka mag-umpisa. “Paano na, Chinkee, kung ayaw ng asawa ko?” Kahit pa ayaw ng asawa mo pero kapag ginusto mo, pwede ito mangyari. Change must start with YOU. Reality is, you cannot wait until such time na magbabago ang asawa mo or ang sitwasyon mo, bago ka magbago.
Hi there! My name is Chinkee Tan, and I have been married 19 years to my lovely Nove Ann, whom I am proud to call my #happywife.
We began our journey as husband and wife with much enthusiasm, excitement, expectancy and even a dose of invincibility.
But soon enough, we’ve discovered that we cannot work out our marriage alone. That is why in our early years of marriage (and even up to now), Nove and I welcomed help. How?
We sought out seasoned couples to mentor us, and younger couples to journey with us and learn from each other.
Sometimes it was intentional mentoring; other times it was just chatting away over a meal. We treated every minute we spent with others as a learning experience.
We began to spend more time with married couples, than with single people.
Minsan ang hirap i-let go ang buhay-binata or buhay-dalaga, but when you are married, hindi na pwede ang singles’ lifestyle. There is so much to learn about married life but we cannot learn it all from just one couple. We learn from each other too, both the good and the bad. Sila din, they learn from us.
We attended seminars and couples retreats whenever we get the chance to.
If it costs a lot of money, we won’t hesitate because our marriage should be a top priority and worth investing in.
Hindi na kayo nag-uusap. Kung mag-usap man kayo, hindi tama ang pamamaraan ng pag-communicate. Communication in marriage needs to be healthy and it has to be two-way, para maiwasan ang miscommunication.
Intimacy is more than just sex. It is much more. Intimacy is connectedness. It is togetherness. If we do not do anything to learn how to be more connected with our spouse, mawawala ang intimacy. Kapag hindi na intimate, wala na din ang romance. Kung wala na ang romance, wala na ang love.
Aminin man natin o hindi, money plays an important role in marriage. We have to pay the bills, buy food and other necessities, pay tuition, etc. Sabi nga ng isang finance guru na si David Woods “Money is the biggest cause of friction in a marriage.” Pero we cannot do away with money! The solution there is our attitude about money and how we manage it as a couple.
These challenges may seem harmless ngayon, pero kapag na-experience na ang mga ito, and left unaddressed, ito ay higit pang lalala. Things will not get better but only get worse.
My wife and I have set up this once a year seminar to help those who want to have their dream marriage. Do you want to have a marriage that will last through both the good and bad times?
Celebrity couple Julius Babao (Action Man / TV and Radio Host) and TinTin Babao (Media Personality) will be joining us to share their personal love story and experience as a married couple for over 14 years.
Session 1 How it all started - Part 1
Session 2 How it all started - Part 2
Session 3 What is the true essence of marriage
Session 4 How to improve communication in your marriage
Session 5 How do men and women handle stress
Session 6 How to avoid miscommunication
Session 7 How to remove pride
Session 8 How to resolve conflict
Session 9 Financially Ever After - Saver or Spender
Session 10 Financially Ever After - Priorities - Part 1
Session 11 Financially Ever After - Priorities - Part 2
Session 12 Julius and TinTin Babao - Journey to Forever - Part 1 Session 13 Julius and TinTin Babao - Journey to Forever - Part 2 Session 14 Julius and TinTin Babao - Threats that destroy marriages Session 15 How to develop great intimacy in your marriage Session 16 Monster-in-laws: Warning signs if you have problems with your in-laws Session 17 Monster-in-laws: 3 Ninja moves to solve in-laws issues Session 18 How to forgive and not cheat on your spouse
One of the best ways we invest in our marriages is to go on dates right? Magkano ba ang nagagastos nyo sa isang date? P2,500, P1,500? Or P1,000? Well treat this event as a date for you and your spouse. Except that it will build your marriage a whole lot more! So if you want to be part of this event, go on a date with your wife during this event for only
As I always say, “Experience is not only the best teacher but learning from other people's mistakes and experiences is the best teacher.”
Yes, mga Kachink. Having your dream marriage is within your reach! The answer and solution to all your problems are within your grasp. All you need to do is reach out.
Having your dream marriage is within your reach! The answer and solution to all your problems is within your grasp. We can help you attain your dream marriage with our seminar...
"HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIFE!"