Meron ka bang “The One that Got Away?” o yung tinatawag nating, TOTGA?
Madalas ka ba magbalik-tanaw sa nakaraan?
Theme song mo ba ang: “Kung Maibabalik ko Lang?”
Normal lang sa atin to think about the past.
Kadalasan for these reasons:
THE HAPPINESS IT BROUGHT TO OUR LIVES
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Whether, kasintahan, trabaho, or opportunity, dahil at some point in our lives, pinasaya tayo nito.
Pero minsan, may consequence, ito yung FEAR OF NOT HAPPENING AGAIN…
Na baka wala ng mangyaring tulad nito.
At dahil baka hindi na maulit, naka pako na lang tayo sa nakaraan.
Kung ano man ang naging dahilan kaya ito natapos, kailangan nating isipin na may magandang dahilan kung bakit iyon nangyari.
TRAUMA IN FULL EFFECT
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Takot na tayong mangyari ito uli.
Umabot sa puntong pakiramdam natin, paralayzed na tayo.
Jaded.
Natutong maging manhid.
Minsan napanghihinaan tayo ng loob sa pait ng nakaraan.
But if you think about it, ANG GALING NATIN!
Kinaya natin ang unos.
Nandito pa tayo, nakatayo, nagbabasa ng blog na ito, at umaasang makakabangon muli.
Iyon ang importante, PAG-ASA!
Do you know what’s more important than our past?
OUR FUTURE.
Kaya ito ang tutukan natin.
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Papunta palang tayo doon kaya pwede pang gumawa ng panibagong diskarte.
Kaya pang paghandaan.
Ang nakaraan, tapos na ‘yan.
Consider it a closed chapter na hindi na natin mababago at hindi tama na nagpapa-alipin tayo dito.
Maaaring malabo ang mga bagay para sa atin ngayon , but please…
HAVE FAITH that everything we go through in life is part of God’s wonderful plan for us.
“Leave the past behind. Learn from it and move on.”
-Chinkee Tan, Motivational Keynote Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Saan ka hindi makapag-move on?
- Ano yung ‘The One that Got Away” mo?
- What are you looking forward to in the future?
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Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.