Parati bang hindi kayo magkaintindihan ng mister mo? Para bang taga ibang planeta na s’ya dahil hindi mo na makausap nang maayos?
Ano nga ba ang maaaring gawin kapag si mister ay hindi na nagsasalita o naka-silent mode na? Hahaha..
ADOPT HOW HE COMMUNICATES
Alam kong may mga pagkakataon na mas makikilala ninyo ang isa’t isa kapag nagkatampuhan na o nagtalo. Mas lumalabas na kung paano rin ang naging upbringing sa inyo.
Hindi ko naman sinasabi na mag-away kayo para lang makilala ninyo ang isa’t isa. Ang sinasabi ko lang ay mayroon din kayong matutuklasan pa sa temperament ng partner n’yo.
May iba na kailangan muna mag cool down. Merong iba naman na salita nang salita. Ang iba naman gusto matapos ngayon. Habang ang iba, gusto ay bukas pa. So tbukas pary to learn how to adopt.
PLEASE PAUSE
Kung may point ang sasabihin ninyo, then say it. Pero kung nakikita n’yo nang ‘di pa rin nakikipag-usap si mister at salita pa rin kayo nang salita, then try to stop for a while.
Try to think saan ba nagsimula, ano yung pagkakamali n’ya, ano yung pagkakamali mo then isip ka ng possible solutions. Instead na magsisihan, pag-usapan ninyo kung paano kayo magmi-meet halfway para hindi na ito maulit.
RESPECT
The only way to gain respect is when you show respect to him. Applicable ito hindi lang sa mag-asawa kundi sa kahit na kanino pa. Kaya naman, always show respect to your partner.
Just keep in mind, alamin n’yo dapat ang problema. Hanapan n’yo ng solusyon at pagkasunduan n’yo. Stop blaming each other dahil hindi yun ang solusyon instead, talk heart to heart.
Never be a foreigner to your own husband. Makipag-usap kayo sa language na magkakaintindihan kayo. Please don’t just take it literally. Kailangan kasi talaga ay matuto kayong mag-adjust dahil
“Balewala ang pakikipag-usap kung hindi naman nagkakaunawaan. Kaya dapat willing kayong matutunan kung paano kayo magkakaintindihan.”
– Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Ano ang pinakamatinding pagtatalo ninyo?
- Paano ninyo ito nasolusyunan?
- Gaano kahalaga ang pagsasama ninyong dalawa?
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