“Chinkee, pwede ba ma-avoid ang failure?”
I regret to inform you na wala pong nagwawagi sa buhay na hindi dumadaan sa pagkabigo. So, in other words, no one can avoid failure.
Alam kong napakasakit na maka-experience ng rejection, failure at pagkalugi.
This is not a pleasant experience.
Nobody want this to happen.
But the reality is that no one can succeed in life without going through the process of failure.
If you are going through the pain of failure and defeat today.
Allow me to coach and guide you, to give you a different perspective.
LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE
Most of the time parang ang hirap hanapin ang positive things sa experiences natin kasi parang puro negative. But if you will look closely, laging merong things to be thankful for. So, don’t give in to despair and don’t give up, just keep looking.
HINDI MO NA CLOSE YUNG BIGGEST CLIENT MO
Maybe God did not allow this deal to push through dahil alam niya na hindi maganda kausap itong kliyente mo. Instead na kumita ka, baka ikalugi mo pa! God knows best and wants only the best for you.
HINDI KA NAKAALIS PAPUNTANG ABROAD.
Baka dahil ayaw ni Lord na mawalay ka sa piling ng pamilya mo. Mas maganda pa na hindi masyadong masarap ang inyong kinakain pero sama-sama naman kayo.
HINDI KA SINAGOT NG NILILIGAWAN MO
God knows na hindi kayo bagay sa isa’t isa. Also maybe because God has a better person for you. Akala mo siya na pero hindi mo na realize na meron pala ibang tao na mas-perfect para sa’yo.
Kapag sinubukan natin mag-focus sa pain of defeat and failure, wala tayong makikitang maganda. Pero kung pilitin natin to look for the positive, we will see new opportunities that can come out of this “failure”.
These new perspectives will not only help us cope with failure but will also change our mindset when it comes to how we see things.
Hindi mahalaga kung mabigo tayo ng maraming beses, ang mahalaga yung pagbangon natin sa bawat kabiguan.
Huwag tayong matakot mabigo.
Ang mahalaga, may matutunan tayo sa ating pagkabigo.
At higit sa lahat ma-enjoy natin ang journey natin to success.
“Failure is not fatal when we learn from it”
-Chinkee Tan, Top Motivational Speaker Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Nag-grow ba tayo?
- Natuto ba tayo?
- Tumibay ba tayo?
Chinkee Tan is a Wealth Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Best-selling Author on personal finance and wealth management. He has written 16 best-selling books and counting. His mission is to equip millions of Filipinos to be free from financial stress & experience financial freedom.