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Confessions Of A Negative Person

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Paano na kung malugi?
Paano na kung mag-fail?
Paano na kung walang mangyari?

Bakit ba ang parating naiisip ko ay negative?
Bakit napaka hirap mag-isip ng positive?

Nauumay ka na ba sa mga taong negative?
Nagsasawa ka na ba sa walang katapusan nilang rants?
Negative thoughts dito, negative thoughts doon.
Reklamo dito, reklamo doon.

Para bang gusto mo na silang sigawan at alugin! Gusto mo silang magising sa katotohanan na hindi puro negatibo ang nasa mundo.
At gusto mong malaman nila na may kakayahan silang baguhin ang kanilang mindset.

Alam na nilang negative sila pero di nila magawang iwasan ang karagatan ng negatibong pag-iisip.

At bakit nga ba may mga negative people?

ENVIRONMENT

Napakalaking factor ang environment ng isang tao sa kung ano ang magiging outlook niya sa buhay. Kung noong bata pa lang ang isang tao ay puro “no!”, “hindi pwede!” at “huwag!” ang naririnig niya, then most likely ay magkakaroon siya ng negatibong pananaw sa buhay. Hindi kasi siya magkakaroon ng confidence to embrace life dahil as a child ay masyado siyang limitado.

PEOPLE THAT SURROUND YOU

Isa rin sa nakakaapekto sa outlook mo ay ang mga taong nakakasama mo. Kung madalas silang magreklamo, malamang maging reklamador ka rin; kung madalas silang magalit at ikaw ay nasasaktan, malamang magiging magagalitin ka na rin; kung sila naman ay palamura, malamang magiging palamura ka na rin. In other words, NAKAKAHAWA sila! Make sure kung pipili ka lang ng mga kasama, piliin mo na yung mga taong makakaimpluwensiya sa iyo ng tama.

MEDIA

Kung manonood ka ng balita o magbabasa ng dyaryo or trending topics, ano ang kadalasan na makikita? Pinatay na dalaga. Kurakot na opisyal. Ninakawan na matanda. Nasunog na bahay. Puro negative. While it is okay to be updated, people need to be conscious what they feed their minds often.

Basically, these are the factors kung bakit may mga taong negative. Naguumpisa kasi externally yun and once na ma-penetrate na nung mga negative na nanggagaling sa mga factors na yun ang isipan ng isang tao, that’s where the real problem begins. It takes total grace from God para malabanan natin ang negatibong pag-iisip. We need to decide to stop being negative and start being positive. And hindi madali iyon. Yes, we can decide at this very instant na magiging positive na tayo. Pero we need His grace para ma-fulfill natin ang decision na yun.

THINK. REFLECT. REPLY.

Ikaw, ano sa palagay mo ang nakaka-effect sa iyo sa pag-isip na negative? Ano ang plano mong gawin?

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