AY, CHOOSY KA PA BES?

May kilala ka bang taong choosy?
Meron namang nakahain, may available
namang trabaho, o may nagagamit naman,
naghahanap pa ng iba?

“Yan lang ang ulam natin?”
“Huh? Admin job? Ayoko nga, aalilain lang ako.”
“Won’t use other bags kapag hindi Chanel.”
“Diyan tayo titira? Okay ka lang?”

Bakit nga ba ang hilig natin mamili?
Yes we might have a lot of choices
pero minsan we forget to appreciate
what is already in front of us.

Masyado tayong mapili sa lahat.

Meron naman na, naghahanap pa.
Marangal naman, umaarte pa.
Maganda naman, inaayawan pa.

If we keep on doing this,
then there won’t be anything good left for us.
Lagi lang tayo naghahanap ng mga bagay
that will make us happy.

We will never be contented.

Alam n’yo yung kasabihang:
“Find the good in everything?”

Well for us, mga choosy people,
we don’t know how to do this.

Ano ba ang signs na tayo ay choosy?

WE SET TOO HIGH STANDARDS choosy

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Lahat ng detalye hanggang kaliit-liitan
napapansin natin— na kapag hindi nito na-meet
ang ating standards, onto the next.

“Padeliver na lang ako.”
Kahit may ulam naman na niluto si Nanay.

“Ayoko, P10,000 lang sahod ko? ‘Wag na uy!”
Kahit 6 months na naghahanap ng trabaho.

“Yan lang napundar mo for us? Liit naman!”
Kahit halos 24/7 na magtrabaho ang ating asawa
mabigyan lang tayo ng sariling bahay.

It’s okay to set standards
but let us be realistic about it.
Baka kasi mamaya masyado nating
ipinipilit ang gusto natin,
eh baka mawala lang sa ating yung
opportunity na dumating sa atin.

Masayang lang kasi we are focused on
our impractical and unrealistic details.

NAHIHIRAPAN TAYO MAGTIWALA choosy

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Hindi pa natin nasusubukan pero
ayaw na kaagad natin.

Nadinig lang natin na hindi maganda
o kaya naikwento lang sa atin na
hindi naging maganda ang karanasan
nila sa isang kumpanya o bagay
ayaw na rin natin.

It’s okay to listen to other people
para lang we get to hear a different side
of the story, pero it doesn’t mean na
‘yun na kaagad ang susundin natin o
magiging basehan ng ating desisyon.

It’s okay to try out new things.
It’s okay to trust.

Kung hindi naging maganda ang experience
at least next time, alam na natin.
May basis na tayo for our decision.

Hindi lang dahil sa sabi-sabi lang.

TALON NG TALON NG TALON HANGGANG SA WALANG MARATING

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This is very common sa relationships and
sa trabahong pinapasukan natin.

Masaya sa una pero
‘pag may nakitang kamalian,
ayun, lipat na naman.

Halimbawa:
Sa ating mga karelasyon, kapag…
nagtalo lang, na-disappoint, may nagawang mali,
hindi lang nagkaintindihan, hindi na
gwapo o maganda sa paningin natin,
o kaya, may nabago sa ugali…

Ang bilis bilis natin magpalit.
Sabi nga ng mga matatanda,
“Kung magpalit akala mo nagpapalit lang ng damit.”

Sa trabaho naman,
napagalitan o napagsabihan lang,
madaming trabahong naka line up,
o kaya may hindi nakasundong kaopisina…

Lipat na naman!

Alam n’yo mga KaChink,
wala namang masama lumipat o magpalit
especially kapag hindi na makatarungan
ang ginagawa sa atin ng ating partner
o maski sa trabaho man.

Pero ipaglaban muna natin
bago tayo mag-decide.

Baka kasi mamaya,
hindi naman natin sinusubukan,
kaya hindi natin nakikita na may solusyon pala.

Remember, what we are experiencing now
ay pwede uli mangyari sa susunod.
So, do everything first to make it work
then if doesn’t, at least we know
what to consider sa susunod.

If it does, then it is really for you.

“Kapag may dumating na oportunidad na hindi natin gusto,
tignan muna at subukan bago tanggihan at magsabi ng NO.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

• Anong area sa buhay mo ang nagiging choosy ka?
• Bakit? Ano ba talaga ang gusto mo?
• Willing ka bang subukan muna bago umayaw?

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