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Bakit May Mga Taong Walang Konsensya?

PINAKISAMAHAN MO NA NGA NG MAAYOS IBINIGAY MO ANG GUSTO IKAW PA ANG LOLOKOHIN

May mga kilala ba kayong mga tao na walang konsensya?
Hindi lang yung mga sangkot sa masasamang gawain, pero yung mga taong kung manakit ng damdamin ay walang nararamdaman pagsisisi o pagkahiya?

Tulad ng ano Chinkee?

  • Pinakisamahan mo ng maayos at ibinigay mo naman ang gusto pero lolokohin ka lang pala
  • Wala kang ipinakita kundi kabutihan at sinseridad pero nung hindi nakuha ang nais nila, ikaw pa lumabas na masama
  • Naging mabuti ka naman sa kanila pero kaya pa din nila magsinungaling sa iyo ng harapharapan at magmanipula.

Sa mundong ginagalawan natin ngayon, tila marami na sa atin ang naka experience ng ganito. Masakit man isipin pero minsan, kung sino pa ang hindi natin inaasahan, sila pa yung nakakagawa nito sa atin.

Bakit nga ba may mga taong walang konsensya?

SELF-CENTERED

Para sa isang taong hindi nakokonsensya, wala silang iniisip kundi ang kanilang mga sarili ??? hindi ang damdamin na iba.

Ang agenda lang kasi nila ay ang magkaroon ng self-satisfaction kaya gagawin nila ang lahat para mapa sa kanila ang gusto nila kahit na may matapakan silang tao.

WALANG PINAGKATANDAAN

Ito yung mga taong nakagawa ng kasalanan pero para sa kanila ay simple lang yung naging consequence. Hindi talaga sila natuto kaya malakas ang loob na ulit-ulitin ito.

Kunwari:

  • Ninakawan at nagsinungaling sa magulang: Pinagalitan lang at sinigawan.
  • Hindi nakabayad ng utang sa kaibigan: Hindi lang kinausap ng isang linggo, nagkalimutan na.
  • Niloko ang partner/ asawa/ kasintahan: Nag-sorry lang, pero balik naman sa dating gawi.

And speaking of consequences???

THEY???RE NOT THINKING LONG TERM

Ang nakikita lang nila ay yung ???at the moment??? consequences. Feeling kasi nila, ???eh, papatawarin din naman ako niyan??? or ???hanggang ganyan lang naman kaya niyan???.

Pero ang hindi nila iniisip, na kapag patuloy nilang niloko at sinaktan ang mga tao sa paligid nila, sila na din mismo ang susukuan hanggang sa dumating ang oras na wala na silang malapitan.

ANG SALITANG ???SORRY??? AY BALEWALA

Hindi nila naiintindihan ang totoong kahulugan ng ???Sorry??? o paghingi ng tawad.

Para sa kanila kasi, it???s just an ordinary word when in fact, once na sinabi iyon at hiningi sa mga taong naapektuhan, nangangahulugan na gagawin mo ang lahat para hindi na uli makasakit ng damdamin kasi importante sayo ang taong iyon.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

May mga kakilala ka bang mga taong walang konsensya?
Ano sa palagay mo kung bakit sila ganito?
Unawain mo na lang sila kaysa magpa-apekto ka sa kanila.

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