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SORRY

August 2, 2019 By chinkeetan

Sincerely saying sorry is one of the most powerful words
in our lives. It can actually repair and rebuild relationships.
Kaya nitong palambutin ang mga puso nating nasasaktan.

Pero paano na nga ba humingi ng tawad? Ano nga
ba ang expectations natin? Bakit kahit humingi na ng
tawad ay parang hindi pa rin magaan sa loob?

In this blog, I will share my insights about apology.
Paano ba ito magiging effective at kailan ba natin
dapat gawin ito? Paano nga ba humingi ng tawad?

Let’s start with..

ACKNOWLEDGING OUR MISTAKES

“Alam kong nagkamali ako nung _____. I’m sorry.”
“Hindi ko dapat ginawa yung _____. Sana mapatawad mo ako.”
“Patawarin mo ako. Hindi ko na uulitin ang _____.”

Acknowledge. Ibig sabihin nito, alam natin at inaamin
natin ang ating pagkakamali. We say “sorry”, not to
defend ourselves but to seek for forgiveness.

Mahalaga na mapag-usapan ang problema at ang mga
‘di pagkakaunawaan. Pero mahalaga rin na may puso
tayong handang humingi ng tawad sa ating nasaktan.

We need to have a humble heart to know and admit
our mistakes and express being sorry to others.
Mahalaga rin na marinig natin ang side ng taong nasaktan natin.

Sinadya man natin o hindi, nagkamali pa rin tayo
kaya kailangan din natin ng courage to ask for
forgiveness and to give resolutions to the problem.

It is important to show

EMPATHY TO THE ONES WE HURT

“Alam kong masakit yung nagawa ko sa ’yo. I am sorry.”
“Sorry. Hindi ko rin gusto na nasasaktan ka.”
“Kung ako ang nasa kalagayan mo, masasaktan din ako. Patawad.”

May ilang mga tao na kapag nag-sorry na akala
na nila sapat na yun at dapat mapatawad na sila
dahil sa ilang beses na paghingi nila ng patawad.

Pero hindi ito sa bilang o sa dami ng paghingi ng
tawad. Nasa sincerity ito ng isang tao na alam nyang
mali ang ginawa niya at masakit ang ginawa niya.

Imagine kung may isang tao na tayo ay niloko,
lalo na kung mahal natin, napakasakit nito. Hindi lamang
sapat na aminin niya ang pagkakamali nito.

Hindi lamang nakasakit ang taong ito kundi nasira
rin niya ang tiwalang binigay sa kanya. Kaya kailangan
ay maibalik nito ang tiwalang ibinigay sa kanya.

It takes a lot of effort to make a

RESTITUTION OF TRUST

“Nakapagsorry na ako. Ilang beses ba dapat?”
“Diyos nga nagpapatawad, ikaw hindi mo magawa?”
“Tao lang ako. Nagkakamali rin. Hindi ako perpekto.”

Kung gusto nating maayos ang relasyon natin at hindi
tuluyang masira ito, kailangan alam natin kung paano
rin maghintay. We have to be very patient and be sorry.

Imagine binubugbog ang asawa, then you’ll expect na
kapag nagsorry na, tapos na agad yun? Tao ang nasaktan.
Kailangan baguhin natin ang ating sarili at
gawin ang tama. Iyon ang paraan upang maibalik
ang tiwala at mapatawad sa mga pagkakamaling nagawa.

So apology is not just acknowledging our mistakes and
asking for forgiveness. We also need to repair our
relationship with the person we have hurt and never
to do it again.

“Humingi tayo ng kapatawaran para sa maling nagawa natin
at gawin natin ang nararapat upang mabalik ang tiwala sa atin.”
–  Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

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