Mahalaga ang tamang pag-gabay natin sa ating
mga anak upang lumaki sila na may kumpyansa
sa sarili at maging isang mabuting mamamayan.
Kailangan natin ito masimulan nang tama upang
maiwasan ang anumang gulo o maaaring
maging problema sa kanilang paglaki sa buhay.
Kaya simulan natin sa kanilang murang edad,
kailangan ay maturuan natin sila at alam natin ang
mga dapat at kailangan nating ibigay at gawin.
Isang paraan ay ang..
CONSTANT CONVERSATION WITH YOUR CHILD
Mahalaga na makipagkwentuhan tayo sa ating anak.
Hindi solusyon ang pagbigay na lang ng laruan o
gadget para lang tumahimik sila at ‘di tayo maabala.
Kung bibigyan natin ng laruan o libro ang ating anak,
kailangan ay gamitin natin ito para maging daan sa
mas makabuluhang kwentuhan.
Kung bibigyan natin halimbawa ng doll house. Maaari
nating isa-isahin ang bahagi ng bahay at ang mga
bagay na makikita sa bawat bahagi ng bahay.
Sa ganitong paraan ay natutulungan natin ang ating
anak para sa kanyang brain development. Mahalaga
ito lalo na at gusto nating maging problem solvers sila.
We want our children to become problem solvers instead of
becoming part of the problem. So constant communication
is very important for their development and growth..
Another important thing to do is to..
LIMIT THEIR WATCHING TIME
This is not a punishment to them. Pero hangga’t maaari
rin ay mabawasan ang panonood ng ating anak sa TV.
So babalik na naman sa simula na kailangan ay
laging nag-uusap at nagkukwentuhan. Kung hindi
naman maiwasan ang panood, piliin ang mga ito.
Siguraduhing akma ang kanilang pinapanood para
sa kanilang edad upang mas maunawaan din nila
ang mga emosyon na bahagi ng kanilang pinapanood.
We also want them to become change makers so we
have to try things that are not the usual but effective
and can actually help for their brain development.
We can actually give them tasks that will make them
productive and can make them responsible at the same time.
This could be a bonding and fun at the same time!
And of course, never forget to..
SAY POSITIVE WORDS
This means that each time they are behaving well or
doing good things, or maybe even when they are
doing things quietly, we have to say good things like:
“Good job, anak”
“Ang behave naman ng anak namin.”
“We love it! You did great.”
These will help them understand that what they are doing
is good. Kasi kung hindi natin ito papansinin, maaaring makagawa
sila ng mga bagay na hindi maganda just to get our attention.
Left unguided, they may become troublemakers. Instead, we need to train them to become risk takers and help them effectively face the challenges and be able to overcome hurdles in life. We can do this by remaining patient with them and making sure that we are setting good and godly examples consistently.
“Let’s make them risk takers, problem solvers and change makers.
We can do this with proper guidance and fervent prayers.”
– Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Anu-ano ang mga ginagawa ninyo upang maturuan ang inyong anak?
- Paano n’yo sila tinuturuan nang tamang pag-uugali?
- Sinu-sino ang maaaring tumulong sa inyo upang maturuan at mapalaki nang tama ang inyong mga anak?
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