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ANG RELASYON NA KASING LAMIG NG SIMOY NG PASKO

December 11, 2018 By chinkeetan

relasyon

Nanlalamig na ba ang inyong relasyon?
Pwedeng relasyon ninyong mag-asawa,
magkaibigan, o magkasintahan?

Ano ba ang ibig sabihin ng nanlalamig?

Ito yung, tingin na lang natin sa kanila ay STRANGER.
Kapag kinakausap natin sila, wala ng
excitement, at kung pwede lang,
ayaw na sana muna natin sila makita.

“Ayoko na sana kaso, sayang yung 5 years na pinagsamahan”
“Normal lang siguro ito sa mag-asawa”
“Baka hindi na ako magka boyfriend, tiisin ko na lang”

Ang sad noh?
Parang we feel hopeless na

mababalik pa ang dating saya ng pagsasama.

But we shouldn’t feel this way.
Wala namang hindi nasosolusyunan pero

dapat parehas tayong open sa pagbabago
at parehas tayong willing na mabalik
sa dati ang ating relasyon.

Sabi nga sa isang kanta:
“Muling ibalik ang tamis ng pag-ibig”

Paano nga ba?
Ano ang dapat gawin?

 MAG-USAP KAYO PLEASE relasyon

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And I have to stress out yung PLEASE.

Kasi minsan tayo ay may mga issues ng
dinadala, pero hindi naman natin sinasabi
sa ating spouse. Parang kinikimkim ba.

Nauuna pang malaman ng mga kaibigan
at kamag-anak na may problema kaysa
diretsong kausapin sila.

Kapag hinayaan nating mamuo yung
sama ng loob, lalaki at lalaki ito,
at mas masakit pa lalo ang resulta.

Habang maliit pa, habang fresh pa
pag-usapan na natin at huwag palipasin.

IDENTIFY THE CAUSE relasyon

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Nasaktan ba tayo nung:

  • Hindi maganda ang timing ng biro niya?
  • Hindi tayo pinansin pagdating natin?
  • Nakalimutan nila tayong tawagan nung gabi?
  • Gumimik siya with friends nung anniversary natin?
  • Naiwang nakatambak ang mga pinggan pag-uwi?

Madaming dahilan kaya tayo naiinis.
And we need to identify that no matter how

Big or small it is.

Para kapag nakipag-usap tayo, mas malinaw
kung saan nanggagaling yung hugot natin.
Hindi yung kung ano-ano ang sinasabi natin.
Focus on one point before we
proceed to the next one.
Basta naman klaro, mas magiging madali ito.

WORK ON FINDING A SOLUTION relasyon

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At dahil…
nasaktan siya sa biro natin,

mag-ingat na tayo sa susunod.

Naiwan nating nakatambak yung mga pinggan,
next time, magpatulong kung hindi na kaya.

Gumimik tayo with friends tapos
anniversary pa natin,
bumawi tayo by giving them
the time and attention that they need.

Huwag nating hahayaang
magsabi sila ng hinaing nila
tapos tayo, wala tayong ginagawa.

Imbis na gumawa ng solusyon,
tayo pa yung ma-pride.

“Napaka babaw mo!”
“Ang liit na bagay pinapalaki mo!”
“Bahala ka diyan, wala ako sa mood”

Nako. Huwag tayong ganito.
Always be sensitive and always
consider the feelings of our spouses.

Remember if we love them,
we will take good care of their emotions too.

“Kapag may issue, pag-usapan na natin at huwag ng palipasin.
Dahil kapag pinatagal at inipon, baka mag suffer ang relasyon,”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

  • Bakit nanlalamig ang inyong relasyon?
  • Na-try n’yo na ba mag-usap ng masinsinan?
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