May kilala ba kayong masyadong perpekto?
Walang kamalian?
Kahit pagbali-baliktarin, tingin nila sa sarili nila
ay taong kinusot sa Tide?
Yung bang:
*Swoooosssh*—walang dumi at bahid ng kasalanan?
Ang galing naman at napaka palad
kung sa bilyon-bilyong tao feel nilang sila ay ganito.
But the truth is, walang taong perpekto.
Si Lord lang ang malinis at pure.
Since hindi naman tayo si Lord,
Hindi natin dapat i-claim na tayo
ay hindi nakagagawa ng kasalanan, ‘di ba?
Unfortunately, meron talagang ganito.
Lakas loob pa nilang ipapakita na
hindi sila nagkakamali.
“IKAW ang may kasalanan, HINDI AKO”
“Walang dapat sisihin kundi IKAW”
“Labas ako diyan, problema NIYA ‘yan”
Dahil para sa mga taong feeling perpekto:
MADALI SA KANILA MAGTURO perpekto
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Since pakiramdam nga nilang hindi sila nagkakamali,
lahat ng pwede ituro, ituturo nila
maski behind the story ay may kinalaman din sila.
Okay lang naman to get frustrated
with the person who hurt us. Normal lang din
naman kung at some point we blame them.
Pero let’s take a look at ourselves too.
Isipin natin kung:
“Wala kaya akong nagawa kaya nagawa niya sa akin iyon?”
“Baka may contribution ako sa senaryong ito”
“Saan kaya ako nagkamali rin?”
Para kapag nakaharap natin yung taong
nakasakit sa atin, mas open-minded tayo
na makipag usap at mas lumawak ang ating
pang-unawa, knowing na BAKA nga may fault din tayo.
MAHILIG MANGDIIN AT MANGHUSGA NG TAO perpekto
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When we feel perfect, kahit na sino
nagiging mali sa paningin natin.
Lahat ng kilos nila, ultimo yung mga sincere
actions or motives, ginagawan natin ng issue.
Ano ang ibig ko sabihin:
“May kailangan lang ‘yan kaya nag-text”
“Nakokonsensya lang ‘yan kaya nag-sorry”
“Wala lang magawa ‘yan kaya ako inaaya”
Kada kibot, kada salita, we interpret it
very differently and negatively nang hindi
muna inaalam ang totoong istorya.
Hindi ba’t mas maganda kung haharapin
natin yung tao o kakausapin ng maayos
at pakikinggan muna bago tayo mag-assume?
Kasi when we assume, automatic, we judge the person.
So, end of story na kaagad, no room to
at least listen to each other’s opinions.
HINDI SILA HUMBLE TO ADMIT NA MAY MALI DIN SILA perpekto
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“Bakit ako ang magso-sorry eh SIYA ang mali?”
“Hindi ako hihingi ng tawad, WALA NAMAN ako kinalaman”
“Bahala siya mahirapan, basta ako, MALINIS KONSENSYA KO”
Going back to my first point awhile ago,
tingin tingin din tayo sa sarili kasi
one way or another, baka may nagawa din tayo
that triggered this unwanted situation.
May nagawa o wala,
sinasadya man o hindi,
be humble enough to admit that
we are also not perfect.
And because we are not perfect,
we don’t have the right to judge other people.
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” – Ephesians 4:2
“Kapag may nakagawa ng mali sa atin, iwasang manghusga at mangdiin. Maging mapagkumbaba at matutong magpatawad dahil tayo man ay hindi perpekto at nakakasakit din ng ibang tao.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- When someone does something bad to you, do you easily forgive or you always choose to blame and bring out the past?
- How can you be humble in times like these?
- Are you ready to forgive and move on?
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