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SIGNS NA MATIGAS ANG ATING PUSO

June 3, 2018 By chinkeetan

matigas

Recently I have talked to someone.
She’s asking for help kasi yung taong
malapit sa kanya, ang tigas daw ng puso.

Unfortunately, meron talagang mga
may pusong mas matigas pa sa bato.

Yung iba dahil:

  1. Ayaw masaktan
  2. Madaming kinikimkim na galit
  3. They don’t trust ANYONE
  4. Wala silang pakialam or
  5. All of the above

And this is not good, you know.

Kasi kapag kailangan ng makaramdam,
tayo parang statue lang.
Walang reaction.

Kahit pa humahagulgol na yung kausap natin,
nagmamakaawa na yung kaibigan, o
sobrang emosyonal na ng conversation…

WALA… N.R.!
“Bahala ka diyan!” ang ating peg!

How do we know kung tayo
o yung kakilala natin ay may matigas na puso?

Here are some signs:

WE DON’T TRUST OTHER PEOPLE matigas

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Simula pa lang ng pag-uusap
parang nag-aalangan na tayong
ituloy pa ito.

Yung mga salitang:
“Kamusta ka?”
“Uy anong bago sa ‘yo?”
“Kwento ka naman!”

…feeling natin hindi DAPAT sagutin
kasi BAKA mahusgahan lang tayo.
Pakiramdam natin may hidden agenda.
Kahit sincere naman yung tao.

And in order to protect ourselves,
we just shut people down.
Pinuputol natin o iniiba ang usapan.
We also use anger o pagtataas ng boses
as our defense mechanism.

If we continue doing this,
in the end, very few or no people
might come near us anymore.

Kasi parang wala naman tayong ganang
makausap ang iba.
Bakit nga naman sila kakausap ng
taong walang tiwala sa kanila, ‘di ba?

WALANG ADVICE NA MAGANDA PARA SA ATIN matigas

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Sa ating pananaw, tayo lang ang…

  • Tama
  • May karapatan
  • May magandang plano at idea
  • Nakatataas
  • Magaling

EH DI WOW! IKAW NA!
Naseye ne eng lehet!

Kaya lahat ng sinasabi ng iba sa atin?
Balewala!
So again, we shut people out.

Yes we listen pero deep inside:
“Blah.”
“Sige mapagod kang magpayo diyan..”
“Kung anu-anong pinagsasabi n’ya. Kainis!”

You know the most common reason why we fail?
Because we don’t know how to listen.
Masyadong mataas ang tingin natin
sa ating sarili.

Masyado tayong nilamon ng pride.
Ayaw natin lumevel kaya
hindi natin nauunawaan ang punto
ng mga taong nagmamalasakit
at nagmamahal sa atin.

NAHIHIRAPAN TAYONG MAGING MASAYA PARA SA IBA matigas

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Dahil para sa atin, tayo lang ang magaling,
Yung success ng iba, wala tayong pakialam.
Instead of being happy,
we pinpoint yung tingin nating mali.

Nakabili siya ng bahay?
“Sus, utang lang naman ‘yan.”

Ikakasal ang kaibigan?
“Maghihiwalay din ‘yan!”

Natanggap siya sa trabaho?
“Nako, hindi mo kakayanin ‘yan.”

Na promote siya?
“Eh papa’no, close na sila nung boss.”

Ay nako my friend,
kung ganito lang tayo lagi,
eh baka naman mamuhay na tayong mag-isa n’yan.

Sabi nga “hindi lang tayo ang anak ng Diyos”.

Isipin natin na baka kaya nangyari iyon
dahil sa kanyang pagsisikap at tiyaga
and that’s something we need to acknowledge
imbis na hilahin natin sila pababa.

Huwag natin ipagkait ang dapat.
Huwag natin ipagdamot ang isang bagay
na tingin nating deserve naman nila.

“Ang PUSO na kasing tigas ng bato ay para na ‘ring walang pakialam sa mundo
at sa nararamdaman ng ibang tao.”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

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