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Bakit List #3: Bakit may Taong Nangangamusta lang Kapag may Kailangan?

March 26, 2018 By chinkeetan

nangangamusta

Naranasan mo na ba yung

lalapitan ka lang kapag may kailangan sila?

 

Yung akala natin namiss talaga nila tayo,

akala natin, gustong makipagkwentuhan lang

kaya sila nag-message sa atin sa Facebook o nagtext

tapos biglang:

 

“Nga pala….”

“By the way, may tatanong sana ako…”

“Sorry ah, pero kakapalan ko na mukha ko…”

 

Yun na!

Meron pala silang kailangan!

Aruy!

 

Ang dami ng nangyari sa buhay natin

nitong nakalipas na buwan o taon—

Meron sa ating namatayan,

nagkaro’n ng emergency,

o napaulanan ng problema

pero wala man lang silang paramdam o

wala man lang tayo nadinig na simpatya…

 

Tapos ngayong may kailangan sila,

biglang feeling close?

 

Sino ba naman ang hindi maiinis ‘di ba?

Para kasing pakiramdam natin ginagamit lang tayo.

 

Bakit nga ba may mga taong ganito?

 

KAPIT SA PATALIM nangangamusta

nangangamusta

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Wala na silang matakbuhan

kaya nagbabakasakali na lahat

ng lalapitan nila (including us),

eh isa o dalawa man lang “sana” dun

ay matutulungan sila.

 

Hindi na nila iniisip ang sasabihin ng iba,

bahala na kung maging masama ang tingin sa kanila,

ang importante ay sinubukan nila.

 

Sila yung mga taong mabibigat na ang problema

kaya kailangang mahanapan na nila agad ng solusyon

kaysa datnan ng hiya, tapos wala naman mapapala.

 

ABUSADO nangangamusta

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Umutang na noon, umuulit na naman ngayon.

Napagbigyan na noon, susubukan uli.

 

Kasi feeling nila:

  • Mabait tayo
  • Maasahan
  • Walang tinatanggihan

 

Kaya heto, lalapit uli sila thinking na

mapagbibigyan na naman uli yung gusto nila.

 

Hindi nila naiisip na parang

“Ay nakakahiya, tagal na naming ‘di nag-uusap”

“Okay lang kaya lumapit? ‘Di kami close eh.”

“Nakahiram na ko no’n eh, awkward naman.”

 

Basta gusto nila, gusto nila.

 

HINDI NABAGO ANG BUHAY nangangamusta

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Tuwing kailan sila lumalapit?

Madalas kapag kailangan ng pera?

Kapag naiipit sila sa utang?

 

You know, the issue here is not the borrowing,

ang issue yung nangyari AFTER nila manghiram noon.

 

Okay lang yung minsan eh

but it was expected sana na may ginawa na sila

para hindi na maulit ang nangyari noon.

 

Eh kaso ang nangyari,

pagkabayad ng utang

bumalik uli sa dating lifestyle.

 

Nung napahiraman,

imbis na ipambayad sa credit card billing,

ayun, nagshopping!

 

Kaya ang ending,

lalapit na naman sila sa atin

para isalba sila sa maling desisyon nila.

 

Ulit-ulit, ulit-ulit.

Hanggang pinagbibigyan,

patuloy na lalapit kapag may kailangan.

 

“Yung mga Kamag-anak at Kaibigan na Nangangamusta lang ‘pag may Kailangan,

Karaniwan sa FB Messenger sila Nagkalat at Matatagpuan.”

-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker

 

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

  • Minsan ka na bang nabiktima ng ganito?
  • Paano mo sila hinarap?
  • Paano mo sila matutulungan ng hindi kinukunsinte?

 

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