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Ang Asawa ang Repleksyon ng Tagumpay. Alagaan at Ibigay ang Pagmamahal na Tunay

February 16, 2018 By chinkeetan

asawa

Kung ikaw ang tatanungin

paano ka ba makitungo sa iyong asawa

pagkatapos ng trabaho?

 

Laging galit?

Nakakunot ang noo?

Pagdating eh diresto tulog?

Di man lang kiniss si Misis o Mister?

 

“Pagod ako okay?!”

“Sila kaya magtrabaho ng 8-5?”

“Wala, no choice eh, kailangan kumayod.”

 

Ang bigat lang sa loob na pagkagising at

bago matulog na nga lang

natin sila nakikita at nakakasama tapos

naguumapaw ng ampalaya sa

ka-bitter-an at maaanghang na salita pa

ang lumalabas dahil lang sa ‘PAGOD’ tayo.

 

Batid naman nila ang hirap natin.

Nakikita naman nila na ginagawa natin ang lahat

para maitaguyod ang pamilya.

 

Pero gano’n pa man,

hindi dapat natin sila dinadaanan-daanan lang

na para bang may kasalanan sila.

 

Yun bang:

  • Susungitan.
  • Pagbubuntunan ng galit.
  • Pagbubuhatin ng bigat sa dibdib natin.

 

If we really want to succeed and

be better at what we do na hindi

parang napipilitan lang…

 

LOVE YOUR SPOUSE

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“Mahal ko naman siya kaya nga ako nagtatrabaho.”

“Di ba siya nga ang dahilan?”

 

Hindi porket nagtatrabaho tayo

eh yun na yun.

Aside from providing for the family,

one way to show our love is by

giving them RESPECT.  

 

Regardless of what we did the whole day,

kahit gaano pa tayo kalupasay sa pagod,

hindi maganda na bastusin natin sila.

 

Bakit? Dahil…

 

ANGRY HUSBAND, ANGRY WIFE

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Kapag galit ang salubong

baka galit din ang balik sa atin.

 

Kapag sinigawan natin sila,

baka si misis magdamdam

at makapagsalita rin ng hindi maganda.

 

Ang palitan ng maaanghang na salita

sigurado madadala natin ito sa trabaho kinabukasan.

Paulit-ulit magpe-playback yung away natin.

 

In effect, hindi na tayo makaka concentrate sa trabaho,

parang may gumugulo sa isipan, at

syempre, kawalan ng mood dahil sa nangyari.

 

Domino effect na yan.

 

Kaya dapat…

 

HAPPY WIFE, PARA HAPPY LIFE

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Iwanan ang problema sa opisina

at salubungin sila ng may ngiti

the moment that we see them.

 

Kiss them.

Hug them na parang ang tagal niyo na di nagkita.

 

Kapag ganito ang trato natin

we can only hear positive words like:

“Halika, sabay na tayo kumain.”

“Magpahinga ka na mahal, ako na bahala.”

“Hug nga kita para mawala pagod mo.”

 

Oh ‘di ba sarap sa tenga na makadinig ng ganito.

Nakaka-motivate…

Nakakawala ng pagod…

Mas nakaka-enganyo na magtrabaho at

magsumikap lalo because

we feel appreciated in return.

 

Remember:

What they show to us is

a reflection of how we treat them.

 

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“Ang iyong Asawa ang repleksyon ng Iyong Tagumpay

 kaya alagaan mo siya at ibigay ang pagmamahal na tunay.”

-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker 

 

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