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Ang Kasal ay Patibayan at Patagalan. Hindi Pabonggahan at Payabangan

February 4, 2018 By chinkeetan

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Ano nga ba ang kasal para sa atin?

Pabonggahan ba?

Paramihan ng bisita?

Pagandahan ng venue?

O kumpitensya ba sa ibang mga taga barrio,

kaopisina, o kabarkada kung sino ang may pinaka-magandang kasal?

Sadly, this is what has been happening nowadays.

We are so focused sa kung ano ang sasabihin ng iba.

“Du’n tayo sa Tagaytay, para sabihin nila sosyal.”

“Gusto ko destination wedding, wala pang nakagagawa sa kanila nun.”

“Yung catering dapat yung kilala ah, baka sabihin wala tayong budget.”

Bakit puro patungkol sa ibang tao?

Nasaan na yung gusto n’yong dalawa?

Kakapa-impress natin, tuloy,

nasasakripisyo pati ang ating budget.

Halimbawa:

Malinaw na sa atin ang P100,000 budget

pero dahil iniisip natin yung gusto nila,

kung anong appealing sa kanila,

padagdag ng padagdag ang ating listahan.

Hanggang sa kailangan na galawin ang ipon

at yung iba sa atin, utang ang kinababagsakan.

Sayang naman, ‘di ba?

Yes we want it to be memorable

pero baka kakapa-impress,

memorable nga pero dahil

sa dami at laki ng bayarin.

Ano dapat natin tandaan?

FOCUS ON THE MARRIAGE, NOT ON THE CELEBRATION

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“Ha? Hindi namin paghahandaan yung kasal?”

No, it’s not what I meant.

Prepare for the celebration pero

FOCUS more on your life after.

Ang kasal, one day lang ‘yan

pero ang pagsasama, panghabang buhay na ‘yan.

Kailangan paghandaan ang isip, puso, emosyon,

at siyempre, ang bulsa at ipon n’yong mag-asawa.

Paano tayo magiging successful sa ganitong aspeto?

Napag-usapan na ba natin?

Iyon ang dapat pagtuunan ng pansin

more than the wedding celebration

lalo na kung nakabase lang

sa expectation ng iba sa atin.

STICK TO YOUR BUDGET

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Kung ano lang ang available budget

du’n lang natin paikutin ang gastusin.

Pero kung hindi naman talaga maiiwasan

make sure na magdadagdag dahil IMPORTANTE

hindi dahil may nakita tayong uso o

may sinuggest ang mga kamag-anak

kaya biglang change of plans.

Napakahalaga ng budget sa kasal.

Pero hindi naman porket ito lang ang kaya natin

eh feeling kawawa na tayo.

Take this as a ‘happy challenge’.

  • Matututo tayo mag-budget
  • Makakapagtulungan kayong dalawa
  • Mas magiging creative and resourceful
  • You’ll both discover the strengths of one another

HUWAG MAGYABANG

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Bakit kailangan magyabang?

Dahil baka may masabi sila sa atin?

Baka mapahiya tayo?

Naku KaChink, eh mas nakahihiya

kung yabang ang pinairal natin pero

yung mga basic hindi natin magampanan.

Ito yung sinasabing, maganda lang sa picture

pero ang totoo, hirap na hirap dahil

hindi alam paano ang buhay pagtapos nito.

Paano tayo makakatulog ng mahimbing

kung panay utang ang gumigising sa atin?

Paano tayo matatahimik kung panay

tawag ng mga naniningil ang humahabol sa atin?

BE SIMPLE!

Mas maganda kung simple lang ang kasal

pero walang utang kaysa bongga nga  

nganga naman kinabukasan.

“Ang kasal ay patibayan at patagalan. Hindi ito pabonggahan at payabangan.”

-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker 

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