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PUNA PA MORE!

December 24, 2017 By chinkeetan

PUNA

Usong uso ngayon ang mga gatherings

sa family, high school, college, or

office barkada.

 

Sa bawat party na inaatenan natin

minsan ka na bang nakarinig ng:

 

“Uy ang taba mo na ngayon!”

“Ikaw ba yan? Bakit parang umitim ka?”

“Oh kailan kayo magpapakasal?”

“Wala ka pa din anak? Anong petsa na?”

 

Papaano naman tayo gaganahan

umattend ng ganito kung

pagdating na pagdating pa lang

‘yan na kaagad ang bungad.

 

May mga tao talagang mahilig pumuna

ng mga bagay na medyo sensitive ang topic.

Sa dami naman ng pwede sabihin,

iyang mga statement pa na iyan ang naisipan.

 

Kung tayo ang ganito o

tayo man ay biktima ng pamumuna,

here’s what we need to remember:

 

FOCUS ON THE GOOD

focus

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“Mataba”

“Maitim”

“Wala pang anak”

“Ang tagal magpakasal”

 

…obviously, these are sensitive AND

negative words na hindi naman

natin kailangang sabihin.

 

Pwede namang simpleng

“Hi o hello”

“Namiss kita.”

“Tagal na natin ‘di nagkita.”

“Ganda mo girl!”

 

Focus on those.

At kung wala namang magandang sasabihin e

manahimik na lang.

 

MALI ANG INTENSYON

puna

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Bakit kailangan natin ito sabihin?

Para makaangat?

Makakuha ng atensyon?

Walang masabi?

 

Kung ito lang ang dahilan natin,

hindi ito valid reason para manakit ng kapwa.

Maaaring mukhang parang wala lang sa kanila

but deep inside, masakit ito.

 

Kung tayo din ang masabihan nito

hindi din natin ito magugustuhan.

“Uy di ah, hindi ako pikon.”

“Sus, ang babaw babaw eh.”

 

Kahit pa tingin natin ay mababaw o

hindi naman natin intensyong manakit,

matuto tayong umatras at mag slow down.

MINSAN LANG ‘YAN

puna

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Minsan na nga lang magkita

manlalait pa?

 

Ngayon na nga lang uli nagkasama sama

puna pa ang we-welcome sa kanila?

 

Isang beses sa isang taon na nga lang

aasarin pa?

 

Huwag naman tayong gano’n.

 

Ang objective kaya tayo nagkikita-kita

ay para magsaya at makipagkwentuhan lang

at hindi para pumuna ng kapwa.

 

Sige, baka next time ‘di na ‘yan sumama

lalo na kapag natamaan sila ng husto.

 

“ ‘Tis the season to be jolly.  Hindi, PUNA-nananana-nananana.”

-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker 

 

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

  • Ano ang kadalasan mong sinasabi kapag nakita mo ang friends and family mo after a long time?
  • Is it nice or hurtful?
  • How can you welcome them without criticizing?

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