Common issue na ito sa mga couples
hanggang sa extended family ng soon-to-be
bride and groom.
Ayan na. Na-engage na.
Siyempre kasunod na nito ay ang BUDGET.
Sino ang toka, lalaki ba, babae, o parehas?
“Lalaki dapat, propose propose tapos ‘di pala ready.
“Babae dapat, sa’ming dalawa, siya yung nakaluluwag eh.”
“BOTH! Joint effort dapat ito noh!”
Lahat naman ng sagot ay may point.
Pero above all these arguments,
hindi kailangan magtalo-talo
o mauwi sa hindi pagkakaunawaan.
Ang kasal must be a celebration of union.
Walang room ang negativity
sa ganitong special occasion.
SMILE!
BE EXCITED!
HUWAG NEGA!
Here’s how you can deal with it:
COMMUNICATE and COMPROMISE.
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It’s not about who can afford
at hindi rin ito labanan ng gender.
It’s about COMPROMISING.
“Sino sa simbahan? Ako ba o ikaw?”
“Sa reception, hati na tayo?”
“Yung gown mo, ikaw na ba?”
Pag-usapan mabuti.
Para makapag arrive kayo sa decision.
IWASANG MAGKAPIKUNAN
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“Oh ba’t ako, porket lalaki ako kagad?”
“Aaya-aya ka tapos sa ‘kin pala bagsak?”
“Maghintay ka eh sa wala ngang budget eh!”
Pssst!
Kaka-engage n’yo pa lang away na kaagad?
Wala pa ngang nasisimulan, highblood na?
Hindi naman kailangang gumamit
ng mga salitang makasasakit sa isa’t isa.
KALMA lang mga Bes!
This journey of yours must be a HAPPY one.
Breathe in.
Breathe out.
Relax lang.
Magdasal muna bago magplano para
everything will turn out smoothly.
HUWAG LAHAT INVOLVED
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Napapansin n’yo ba na kapag mas madaming
kasama sa usapan, mas dumadami din ang issue?
Madaming kasali means:
- Madaming opinyon
- Halo-halo ang mga sinasabi
- Lahat may gusto i-contribute
Kung kaya n’yo muna sarilihin
kayo muna.
Kung kailangan na ng tulong
at advice, saka na lang magsabi.
Piliin kung sino ang sasabihan at
hihingan ng payo. Someone na
mapagkakatiwalaan at maaasahan.
“Sa inyong palagay, paano ang dapat na hatian ng magkasintahan
sa magiging gastos sa kasal?”
-Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Sa inyong opinyon, sino dapat magbayad?
- Bakit?
- Anong kailangan gawin para makapag compromise?
- How can you save money on a wedding?
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