“USER-FRIENDLY.”
Yes! Sila yung…
- Nangangamusta lang kapag kailangan ng pera.
- Magpaparamdam lang kapag may hihinging pabor.
- Tatawag lang kapag wala nang matakbuhan.
- Susulpot lang kapag gipit na gipit na.
When they get what they want, bigla nalang naglalaho na parang mga magician. *Poof*!
Again, user-friendly.
“Eh Chinkee, no choice eh”
No! We have a choice to do something para hindi tayo abusuhin. Paano?
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF
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Kapag sobra na, tama na!
Kapag abuso na, tigilan na!
First of all, hindi tayo dapat maging panakip-butas dahil higit pa diyan ang halaga natin.
Second of all, ayaw man nating masaktan sila kapag hindi sila pinagbigyan pero hindi naman tama na makukuha nila ang gusto nila while here we are, suffering, dahil sa pag-salo at pag-ako ng responsibilidad.
SAY: “SORRY, I CAN’T.”
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These three words spell F-R-E-E-D-O-M.
Ibig sabihin gusto natin makawala sa burden na gusto nilang ipasa sa atin.
Kung umuutang pero walang-wala na, say NO.
Kung napapagod na dahil paulit-ulit na lang sila, say NO.
For once, pahalagahan natin ang desisyon natin.
OFFER OTHER WAYS TO HELP
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Help can take on different forms. Hindi ibig sabihin na kapag may kailangan sila,we will give in specifically to what they want because there are options.
Options na kumportable tayo at the same time, makakatulong din at some point.
Kung pera ang pangangailangan baka naman pwedeng..
- Help them set up a garage sale to help them earn extra.
- Offer to assess their expenses and see what eats up their budget o di kaya’y
- I-refer sa isang kakilala o kaibigan so they can have a sideline.
“Ang ugaling kinukunsinte ay nagiging permanente.”
-Chinkee Tan, Famous Speaker in the Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
- Sino ang umaabuso sa iyo?
- How are you dealing with it?
- Are you standing up for yourself?
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