Sino sa atin ang may fear of failure?
All of us fear rejection and failure.
It’s human nature.
When we move outside of our comfort zone, we feel scared.
Kapag may bago tayong susubukan and the future is uncertain, we may hesitate because we’re afraid of losing.
Over the years, I’ve learned that failure is good. Yes, you heard me right. Failure is good. This is because failure and rejection are part of the formula of success.
To understand how failure can be good, I want you to focus on these three powerful benefits.
WHAT DID I LEARN?
Ano ang natutunan ko from this situation?
Ano ang mga naging pagkakamali ko at paano ko ito itatama next time?
Ano ang naging outlook ko sa buhay?
HOW CAN I GROW?
How can I grow, as a person, from this experience?
After learning my lesson, how can I apply them so I can become a better individual?
What needs improvement?
What help should I seek?
WHAT ARE THE POSITIVE THINGS I’VE LEARNED?
Did this failure make you a positive person?
Ano ang naging outlook mo sa buhay?
Did it make you stronger?
Did it bring out the best in you?
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WHAT CAN I DO?
How has this experience of failure changed me? Mas naging positive ba ako?
Ano ang pwede kong gawin na next step?
Will I focus on the positive things that happened or the negative?
Ano ang mga lessons na kailangan kong pagmuni-munihan para next time na ma-encounter ko ang situation na ito, tama na ang mga choices at responses ko?
Let us view failure from a different perspective. Instead of being disappointed, we should view it from a positive perspective because this is the time for learning.
“FAILURE IS GOOD. Only if you learn your lessons from it”
-Chinkee Tan, Top Motivational Speaker Philippines
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY
- What are you facing right now?
- Are you afraid of failure?
- What have you learned from your experiences?