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MAHIRAP KAUSAP ANG MGA BALAT-SIBUYAS

December 25, 2016 By chinkeetan

May mga kakilala ba kayong mga taong hypersensitive?

Kung mapagsabihan lang, nasasaktan na agad?

Naiiyak na agad?

Hindi naman mawawala na tayo ay masaktan kung tayo ay mapagsabihan. Pero dapat natin gamitin itong feelings na ito para sa kabutihan. More like, to extend  empathy and compassion towards others.

Mahirap kasama ang mga taong balat- sibuyas.

Hindi ito nakakabuti dahil hindi mo na ito mapagsabihan at binibigyan ng maling kahulugan ang lahat ng sinasabi mo.

“Masyado niyo ako pinepersonal at inaapi.”

“Hindi ninyo na-a-appreciate ang mga nagawa ko, panay ako mali wala na akong tamang ginawa.”

Minsan nagagamit na ng iba yung pagiging sensitive nila as an excuse para maiwasan na sila ay mapagsabihan.

Maniwala ka, kung ganito lang ang makakausap mo, mahihirapan ka paunawain sa kanila kung paano sila mag-iimprove sa buhay.

Pero bago natin tignan ang iba, tignan muna natin ang ating sarili.

“Ikaw, medyo sensitive ka rin ba?”

We just need to be honest why we are too sensitive.

Kasi kung parati na lang umiiwas sa correction, tiyak na tiyak ko na hindi tayo mag-iimprove. Darating ang araw baka wala ng taong ang nais makipag-usap sa atin. Dahil binibigyan natin ng kahulugan lahat ang kanilang sinasabi.

That is the reason why when people I know and trust talk to me and correct me,  I listen to them with an open mind. I try to resist the urge to become defensive.

Sa halip, pinapakinggan ko muna kung ano ang sasabihi nila.

After listening, that’s when I process and check kung ano ang pwede kong ma-improve sa aking buhay.

Ayaw kong dumating ang araw na mapagod ng yung mga taong may concern sa akin at hindi na akong mapagsabihan.

THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.

Is there a tinge of truth? Meron ba itong katotohanan?

Masyado lang ba tayo nag o-overreact?

Are we open for correction para tayo mag-improve?

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Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.



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