Nalulong sa bisyo, pero gusto mo nang kumawala.
Nasira ang relasyon mo sa iyong asawa, pero gusto mo nang ayusin ang inyong samahan.
Meron kang bad habit na gustong-gusto mo nang baguhin.
Nalubog ka sa utang at gusto mo nang umahon.
Masyado kang napasama at gusto mo nang magbagong-buhay.
We all deserve a second chance and everybody needs a fresh start.
Pero aminin natin, hindi ito ganoon kadali dahil most of the time, it’s complicated.
Gaano man kahirap at ka-komplikado na magkaroon ng fresh start, posible itong mangyari kung talagang gugustuhin ng isang tao.
Kung talagang gusto natin ng pagbabago, we will do anything and everything in our power to make it happen.
But how can one really have a fresh start?
Consider these practical steps:
Patawarin mo ang mga taong nakasakit sa iyo. Mahirap mag-umpisa muli kung may mga dala kang emotional baggage, especially if it’s a heady combination of remorse and loathing.
Ang pinakamahirap na patawarin sa ating buhay ay walang iba kung hindi ang ating mga sarili. “To err is human”, as what the saying goes.. Kaya sana, matutunan mo to not beat yourself up for things that you failed to do.
Tigilan na ang mga bagay na pumipigil sa iyong pagbabago.
Anything na hindi makakatulong sa pagbabagong gagawin natin will eventually weigh us down.
Sometimes, the act of unloading – say, one’s debts – can start with a simple act of cutting up your credit card.
ASK FOR HELP
Hindi nakakahiya at walang masama sa paghingi ng tulong sa iba.
But sometimes, when our pride gets in the way – hindi tayo makahingi ng tulong.
Ayaw kasi nating isipin ng iba na mahina tayo and we can’t make it on our own. But we all need somebody. Find an accountability partner, a mentor, or a friend whom you can tap or reach out to whenever the need arises.
Higit sa lahat, we can ask God to forgive us and help us let go of the unnecessary baggage and help us start anew.
His grace is enough for us to have a new beginning. Ang imposible sa tao ay posible sa Diyos.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Do you want to start anew?
Have you forgiven yourself?
Do you believe that God can help you have a new beginning?
–Chinkee Tan, Filipino Motivational Speaker
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. At the same time, he is a husband to his beautiful wife, Nove Ann and a father to three amazing children. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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