Kung tatanungin kita from a rate of 1 is to 10?
1 is the lowest and 10 is the highest.
How would you rate your confidence level?
1-4 = below average
5-7 = average
8-10 = above average
How did you fare in this test?
If you score average or below average, that is pretty normal.
If you score above average, you are exceptional.
Sometimes we have the tendency to look down at ourselves,
we don’t believe in ourselves and we even talk down to ourselves.
May tendency tayo na sabihin sa ating sarili…
“Kaya ko ba ito?”
“Pwede ito mangyari sa iba, pero malabo ito para sa akin.”
“Grabe ka naman, napaka ambisyoso mo naman!”
“Parang ‘di ko naman deserve ang magandang buhay.”
“Hindi naman ako magaling.”
If we allow those kind of statements na mamuhay sa ating mga kaisipan, success will never come into our lives.
Para bang nangangarap tayo pero tayo na mismo ang pumapatay
Pero kung gusto talaga natin na maging successful, here are the three things that we need to tell ourselves daily:
I AM BORN TO WIN
Lahat naman tayo ay may kanya kanyang kahinaan at kakulangan. But it doesn’t necessarily mean that we are already losers because of our weaknesses.
We can still win, despite of our weaknesses, if we will just ALLOW ourselves to win.
Look at Nick Vujicic, this man has been born without limbs. Nag-struggle siya with depression because of that. But eventually, he chose to STAND STRONG kahit na may kulang sa kanya.
He has been an inspiration to a lot of people. He is a PERFECT EXAMPLE na kahit pa may kulang sa ating mga sarili, we can still say to ourselves with confidence, “I am born to win.” At mamuhay na isa talagang WINNER.
I AM BORN TO PROSPER
Kahit pa lubog ka sa kahirapan, you can still say this statement to yourself.
Kung nahihirapan kang paniwalaan yun, alalahanin mo na lang ang ibang mga bilyonaryo ngayon na sa kahirapan din nanggaling.
I believe kilala naman nating mga Pinoy si Henry Sy. Alam naman natin na naranasan niya din ang paghihirap. Pero ngayon, ang kanyang success ay makikita na sa buong Pilipinas, mula sa Luzon, Visayas hanggang sa Mindanao.
I AM BORN TO HELP OTHERS
This is a great motivation para magpursigi tayo na makamit natin ang success.
This statement is a good way to redirect our focus from our weaknesses to the needs of other people.
Kadalasan kasi, pag sarili lang natin ang iniisip natin, we will just think na kaya naman tiisin ang kahirapan.
Pero pag ibang tao na ang usapan, gaya ng magulang o anak, hindi natin kayang tiisin na makita silang naghihirap. Ang mabigyan ng magandang buhay ang mga mahal natin sa buhay ang ating magiging COMPELLING REASON for us to move forward.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Ano ang madalas mong sabihin sa sarili mo?
Nakakatulong ba ang mga yun for you to become successful?
Ano ba ang compelling reason mo to reach success?
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. At the same time, he is a husband to his beautiful wife, Nove Ann and a father to three amazing children. He specializes in topics such as personal development, building and strengthening relationships and financial management to name a few. To this day, he continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines, social media and being invited to be a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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