Have you ever been bullied?
Na-experience mo na bang pagkaisahan ka?
Masasakit ang kanilang sinasabi at gumagawa sila ng paraan para maiinis o di kaya’y magagalit ka.
Minsan ma-babash ka pa sa social media mapa-fb man o mapa-twitter and worst of all they will call you names.
Lalaitin at kukutyain ka nila to the highest level na to the point na gusto nila maramdaman mo, na hindi ka na lang sana ipinanganak sa mundong ito.
Hindi ko rin alam kung bakit may mga taong nag-eenjoy when other people are hurting and suffering.
Parang ikakabuhay ng kanilang dugo at kalamnan kapag ikaw ay nanghihina.
Feeling nila na yumayaman sila pag nakikita kang naghihirap.
Feeling nila na winner sila kapag ikaw naman ay nabibigo.
In other words, ang agenda nila sa buhay is to see you fail!
If you have been treated or still being treated this way.
You are not alone!
Ano ang gagawin mo kung ikaw ay pinagkakaisahan? Paano maiiwasan ang bullying?
Stay Calm
There’s a saying that goes, “You can’t fight fire with fire.” Kung sila ay papatulan mo at gagamit ka ng galit, lalo mo lang sila bibigyan ng kaligayahan. Don’t fuel them up to give you a whack again.
Don’t Blame Yourself
Hindi ibig sabihin na kapag pinagkaisahan ka ay kasalanan mo na. May taong sadyang galit lang talaga sa ibang tao at mahilig mambully o masaya kapag nakakapanakit ng iba.
Blaming yourself for the cruelty of others is the worst torment.
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines who has also experienced being a victim of bullying when he was young. However, this has never been an excuse for Chinkee to take the higher road and become a better person. Now, he specializes in topics such as personal development, dealing with relationships within family, friends, work and other people and financial management techniques to name a few. He continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines and being a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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