May kakilala ba kayo na yumaman at naging matagumpay pero saksakan ng yabang? Nagbago ang ugali feeling nila that they are on top of the world at hindi sila nagkakamali? Feeling nila winner sila at losers ang mga iba.
Success may not always be good. Sometimes when some people are already at the peak of their victory, nagbabago ang kanilang pag-uugali; in other words yumabang. Some of them become over confident in the process, they make bad decisions, and burn everything they accomplished and achieved.
May kilala akong mag-asawa na sumali sa isang networking business, sila ay pinagpala, in a matter of 6 months they made millions. Bumili na agad ng sasakyan at ng condo na hulugan. They live the lifestyle of the rich, despite my warning na huwag muna because they need to know if their income is stable or flush in the pan. They were just over confident na tuloy-tuloy yung kanilang income.
True enough after a year, the company closed and the people behind it run away with all of their money. They can’t hardly make the payment since the source of income was depleted. Ubos na ubos, to the point, wala na silang pambayad ng kuryente. Hindi lang naputulan, wala na ring pambayad ng monthly ng sasakyan at ng condo. So lahat ng downpayment from car to house gone like the wind.
This is what I’ve discovered.
Kapag nakatikim ng tagumpay, kailangan matutong …
Kahit yumaman o maging successful, kailangan natin matandaan kung saan tayo nagsimula. We need to keep our feet planted on the ground no matter what success we may achieve.
NEVER MAKE SOMEONE FEEL LESS OF THEMSELVES
In other words, huwag maging mata pobre. Hindi dahil okay ka at yung isa hindi, may karapatan ng tapakan ang ibang tao. Tandaan natin, na ayaw mo rin sa mga taong minamata ka noong wala ka. So kung ginagawa mo iyan sa iba, wala kang pinagkaiba sa mga taong mayayabang at mata pobre.
BE A GOOD STEWARD
Learn how to take good care of what you have.
Pinagpala ka at pinili ka ni Lord para ikaw ay mabiyayan, kung hindi tayo marunong hawakan at ayusin kung ano man ang pinagkatiwala, maniwala ka! Babawiin din yan!
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Has God provided you with abundance?
How well do you treat others when your on top?
Are you humble when success are in your hands?
“It’s better to find success through God, than finding it on one’s own merits; some who usually find their own success become boastful, where through God it’s with gratitude.”~~Anthony Liccione
Chinkee Tan is a famous motivational speaker in the Philippines. He specializes in topics such as personal development, dealing with relationships within family, friends, work and other people and financial management techniques to name a few. He continues to inspire thousands of people through his books, free business seminars in the Philippines and being a motivational corporate speaker to different organizations.
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