May mga kakilala ba kayong mga vampira? Mga users? Kapag ikaw Ang nag text. La lang, deadma! Mag-hintay ka kung gusto mo.
Nagtetext lang kapag may kailangan sila and once you don’t reply they make you feel guilty and bad.
Pinalalabas nila na yumabang ka na at hindi ka marunong tumanaw ng utang na loob.
They will try to manipulate and make you feel bad until na you succumb to their dirty and evil tactics to get what they want. At pagkatapos nila makuha ang gusto nila, wala na! They dump you like a hot potato. Back to their old self. Ni thank you wala. Hindi na ulit mag-tetext for a a long time. Because they just suck the life out of you and they are already satisfied. They are just like vampires!
Now on the next victim that they will prey and use. Living proof that vampires do really once exist in this world.
It’s painful whenever you encounter these type of people specially when they are in power and your close friends or relatives. Parang no choice ka but to say yes. But in reality, may choice ka!
CHOOSE TO PROTECT YOURSELF
You have a choice to protect yourself not be use by these type of people. These user-friendly people does not deserve your time and attention.
CHOOSE THE PEOPLE YOU WANT TO WORK & ASSOCIATE WITH
You have a choice to choose the friends and the people you want to work with also. Mas masarap kasama at katrabaho mag taong love mong makasama at enjoy di ba?
CHOOSE TO LIVE THE LIFE YOU DESERVE
Huwag lang magpagamit! It is time for you to step up. Make a stand and tell them enough is enough. Kailangan ma-reject din ang mga taong ito from time to time. If you are having a hard time saying no to these type of people. Allow me to help you.
Repeat after me…
Just learn how to say, NO!!!
How difficult is it to say no? “But Chinkee, baka masaktan sila at ipagkalat na mayabang ako.”
Ang ibig mong sabihin ok lang na masaktan ka huwag lang sila ang masaktan.
Huwag mo rin isipin kung magkakalat sila ng lies, people like that don’t really have true friends. Chances are they also used their other friends that people can see through them.
Wala na rin maniniwala sa kanila. Dahil kung ano ang ginagawa nila sa iyo, yan din ang ginagawa nila sa iba.
It is time for you to be brave and be strong to do what is right.
Stand up and fight for your dignity and right. Never allow other people to take advantage of you.
THINK. REFLECT. APPLY.
Do you know people who love to use other people? What are you plans if you encounter them once again? Have you come to the point in your life that you are willing to stand for your right?
Chinkee Tan, a Filipino motivational speaker, specializes in topics such as building relationships, family finance and personal development to name a few. If this article has inspired you to be a better person, you might want to also check out other related posts:
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